dcairns I LOVE the changed centerpieces. I think the lights in the bottom are great and that they'll look lovely on the tables. I prefer the shells spread about because you get more of a beach theme then everything smushed together. Â Â Â Â Pink_Petals, I think Mrs. Williams is correct. If there are 4 options (A, B, C, and D) you and your husband would choose, say, A and D, and on the night of the reception, your guests would choose either A or D as their main course. B and C would NOT be an option to them as they did not make the initial cut of what you and your husband chose. Â Ultimately, people will be happy with whatever food is served, and if they are still hungry, the can always get food later with the 24 hour room service. Don't stress too much, I am sure it will be fine once you get down there and all your family is there celebrating your big day.