Quote: Originally Posted by amybermuda OMG girls I totally forgot, I need your opinions. Friday night, my BM told me that she wants me to have FI invite her boyfriend to his stag. She said it was only fair that her boyfriend "was spending all this money to go the wedding" and she is in the bridal party. My best friend and sister are both married and BMs and neither of their husbands are invited. Is this what I tell the BM? Her BF is 8 years older than FI and a cop and just not on the same wave length as FI. I know she wants her BF to be more included in our group of friends, but I just think its totally awkward to ask me to have input on his stag and thats not appropriate. I dont expect FI to telll me who to invite to my bachelorette. I almost want to say all that to her but I know she will be mad/upset. She was upset that BF was not invited to another little mini-stag on island that someone threw for FI. I can either explain these things to her or leave it alone and not say anything.... OMG! seriously, what is wrong with people??!! I bet if he knew she was saying that he'd not want to go to something he wasn't really invited to anyway!
I'd say something, so it doesn't linger.
And I think what you've said there ^^^^^ is exactly what you should say to her - it's honest, straight and to the point. and add on the end, you're not adding to all your stresses with something that's ultimately nothing to do with you.
Let us know how it goes, whatever you decide!