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Im biased since im already married for 2 weeks..but majestic elegance should be a 3rd and major contender...everyone had such a blast and was soooooooo in love with the place it was worth everything..they did an insane insane job

I can tell you from my experience having just got back and had a week full of rain, fri bbq we had planned with firedancers squashed, sat ceremony in the gazebo squashed, sun bruch on a patio squashed..so we were all about plan b's..BUT?..your going to be sooo happy and on such a high i promise you that it wont matter and every hotel has alternate arrangements and i promise if it rains you'll be fine and manage to have the best time even through the storm..everything works out in the end and makes for an even more exciting and funny adventure..and im not one of those girls that is a girly girl..so for some theyd say who cares and in my head id be like whats wrong with you, you have to care..but in reality and having been through it..youll have a blast no matter what rain or shine

Ok I just went through this all..my suggestion to you guys? Call the hotel direct and ask someone else because I just got married there and if you are waiting for sandra to get back to you you'll be waiting forever!

not lookin good lol

LMAO greaaaaat!

Ok so i was soo excited everything was going perfect then I got a call that my dress is ready for my first fitting and i started freaking out! Like insanely freaking out thats its so close and gonna be so official..just want to know if anyone else has gone through this or im just psychotic? lol Thanks

Hi Kenya OMG do I know how you feel..people are selfish, and I hate to say it and I hope it wont happen to you but I had the same experience, down to people telling me why i chose DR instead of somewhere else. The reason i chose DR is because people told me that they had the best all inclusive that would be cheapest for people to go (that was before everyone got scared of mexico) and like you my dad passed away and through all that I was in 9 weddings NINE 3 ,maid of honors and 6 bridesmaids wearing the nastiest dresses you can ever imagine but they were my friends and if they asked me to wear a garbage bag id do that too because it was making them happy. ask me how many of them are coming? whos saying its too expensive, to far to this to that..and i was crushed in the beginning, now i just distanced myself from all of them. because i understand its far and its expensive and i dont expect everyone to come because people have families and responsiblities..but when im not telling u how dare u spend 1k on a pair of shoes, dont dare tell me why did i chose this place. not to mention the fact that before ppl were doing destination weddings that was the dream of my life even as a kid i always said i just want a sick dress, beach and flipflops lol. but i do expect people to be genuinely happy for you as you were for them and the truth is they just arent sad to say. and some people may have been fortunate finding amazing people around them but not all of us have been that lucky. having a wedding in NY is insanely expensive but besides that ur sayin thats what u wanted...tell everyone to go f themselves or even better just ignore them, thats what i do now and i find that its so much easier..less drama, less BS. if you need to vent to someone that fully understands you im here

Oh awesome!! Thanks so much

Thanks so much!

Thanks so much for the link by the way

Oh good ye I dont want them thick just perfect for an evening. Also I wonder how long it takes to ship were getting married soon and i a little slow on this planning business lol

No but you know how you have to go through scanners, I dont want them to A) get suspicious, or ruin the film

Wow everyone seems so happy with this I may order this for the bag too...whats the website? ad the quality was good? are they very thick?

hi guys! very dumb question but i wanted to get disposable cameras for the oot bags, but i was curious if they are ok to fly or im going to have a problem with them, both with security and all the other stuff

OMG i got the cutest ones from vista print..and u can insert any type of pic you want quality was great and they were cheap!

OMGGGGGGGGGGGG I am soooooooooo sorry!!!!!!!!!!! What type of cancer was she diagnosed with? If you need anything at all, PM me at any time. It's easy to say all that stay strong stuff but I have gone through what you're going through and I know its alot easier said then done, so I wont say it. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and you're family and if you have questions, need to vent or anything message me. Best of luck to you guys

damn freakin estrogen

I know its not smart..but i still scream like a raging lunatic

awwwwwwww thank you for that!!!!!!!!!!! really thank u so much for ur words scuba. and you have something which i wish i had, you seem non judgmental with stuff you may not agree with, i react first and then think later which is soooo bad..gotta work on that lol

Sick because its 3 mths away and my back & forth emotions stop me from moving forward with planning which is what i need to do lol we were doing great then one day i woke up pissed which happened to be thankgiving day and we went to his family where they were all talking wedding stuff and i got even madder, then this weekened was great UGH One day i'll figure myself out..one day! lol

LOL no I appreciate it..and the truth is I know why he doesnt tell me certain things..not that I am justifying anything but I also know that I am judgmental and my convictions are so strong that if he tells me something that i thing is retarted then I get very condescending..so for him hes damned if he does or doesnt..if he tells me he knows its going to turn into a fight and if he doesnt tell me he doesnt realize it but i find out and it turns into a bigger fight..he needs to man up and i need to calm down..and maybe that balance would be better. I am still kind of jaded and hurt and when i think of it, it sickens me but i feel like if we arent meant to be together i would be able to walk away easily and i wasnt so that means theres still a part to our story..and it may end in happily ever after, or it may end in divorce papers 6mths after the wedding, but nothing is guaranteed, not couples that marry out of undying love, or couples that bicker..we just dont know..and my mom always told me all my life "when you get to the point that you cant take it anymore you'll know exactly what to do, if you can clearly decide then you arent ready to make any desicions" which is perfectly applicable here. so we shall see I wish everyone a happy and healthy thanksgiving.

ok sooo...heres where we stand..been crazy busy with school papers and stuff..after a week of sleeping on the sofa he transitioned to the bedroom..he swore up and down it was from the past and no longer does it..so what can i do..after torturing myself, him, my fam and his fam for over a week, telling myself i was done didnt work and i realized i do love the moron..i told him im not jumping back into any wedding planning and were taking it slow. so hopefully that was a lesson learned..i heard building complaints that there was too much screaming from my appt (i got a pair of lungs lol) and i hope things will get better one way or another. thank u all sooooooo much for your support i couldnt have done it without this site i felt like my heart was gonna explode keeping it all in lol. thanks again everyone!

Thanks so much for all of your support..no progress at all..hes trying to make an effort to do things together and im just keeping to myself driving myself nuts with confusion as to what to do..had a huge presentation due for class today i woke up so stressed out i dont know how i got out of bed but i better decide soon before i ruin not only my life

lol dont be sorry at all.. been together for 3 & a half yrs..live together for one..both in our early 30's..when he was younger he gambled on sports..when we got together i said ill never be with him if he ever does that..he would tell me when he did it at a work pool or whatever and id get mad but he was telling me so i appreciated that..i have a strong personality with strong convictions and so what alot of people tolerate i dont (not saying with this, really with anything) other then this issue we have a great relationship, but when it comes to things he knows i dont approve of which is really only this he doesnt want to hear my mouth. soo..with this situation he was paying off the guy he knew from before and thought hed paid it off & finished with that part without me knowing and start fresh which obviously didnt happen, there was still 3500 that was owed and since finding out this this week ive basically done all but hung him on a jury to tell me whats going on..and he swore that this was the last of it and it was from the past. im just pissed why i didnt know and so i dont want to believe him when he says its the end because i didnt know this was still owed..and thats where im at. he swears this will never happen again but who reallyknows if it will or wont and i dont want to put myself in a situation where it can...on the flip side hes an amazing guy with a heart of gold and just immature..ugh i dont know lol

he did have the problem and from what I understand he no longer does, this was from a while ago..not that by any means i am making excuses or justifications because i am not but he swore over and over again that the fantasy football stuff is over..this was just from the past & again not that it makes it ok, or that if you have the tendency it cant reappear at any time...but in regards to this instance it was from a long time ago.