we are simply going with the judge, and having the legal wedding. We are to arrive on the sat and being married on the tuesday, Carolina told my TA that this is ok, so I'm going to run with it. I like the fact that my wedding is at the beginning of the trip, so the stress of the day, as easy as it is, can be done and over with to be able to do day trips for the rest of the week and hang out at the beach clear minded and able to celebrate for the rest of the week!!!