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I'm fine with it as well.

the old "motivated" me : has to be there somewhere

what I am about to go do : get ready to go to work

motivation : what I don't have a lot of at the moment

I'll say it again like before. I'm so sorry that you and your kids have been going through this, reading more about the rest of it. You are definitely made the BEST choice. You and your kids don't deserve to be put through what you have from him. **HUGS** And as for the dad, yes, he's taking it on you. He's not seeing your side of what is going on and that's not right. He should be supportive and be glad that you got yourself and the kids out of a bad situation. His son needs help and it had to come this because what he was doing... what else did he expect you to do? How would have felt if something happened if you didn't do something. Call the police, ask for an escort, make sure you have the papers for proof. You need another person to be putting you down. I wouldn't let the kids around him for awhile until calms down and comes to realize what you did was right... because who knows what he'll be saying in front/to them.

I would be honest and say I don't like him, I don't trust him, and I just don't want him there.

Hmm.. that is a toughie. But yeah, he is going because he probably wants to party in the DR and chase after women in bikinis... And how is she going to handle him oogling other women, and possibly have something happen down there? He isn't going to give a rat's @ss that it's your wedding. And if (more than likely when) the drama starts up... who do you think is going to be dragged into it? And even moreso, say you don't "help" her, what happens then? Do you really need the possibility of crying, the yelling, the name calling going on between them in front of you and your family?

optimism : glass half full

I screwed up on the dates. I had a holiday Monday as well, but here they call it Family Day.

"What's your poison?" "If you think that's alot, you should see what I drank in here" "How dare you follow me to my secret drinking hole" "What's in these bottles are mine... yours in that cup... got a problem with that?" "So does this mean I am a wine-hole?" wine-o

Oh my... that site is HILARIOUS!

Darn it... can't view from here...lol. Have to wait til I get home. heehee

Eiffel : Paris

nursing : breastfeed

LMAO. This is hilarious... She has more of a neck now compared to before, so her double chin is gone.

Aw, that sucks. That's really unfair of them to do that, can they really get away with doing that? Hopefully it works out in the end for ya.

So sorry to hear about this, but you definitely did the right thing. Your children's safety is priority and if he can do that to them, he does deserved to be booted out and arrested. Hopefully some day he can get his own life straightened out and actually mean it before it kills someone. You're a strong woman like that ladies said. huge hugs

spending money: shopping spree

water : fall

Congrats ladies!

hard to do : get over a fear

I can't get enough sushi.. mainly maki rolls. YUMMY!

water: plants

I went down slightly.

Here's mine from FB: 1. I regret not becoming a vet or a RCMP officer. 2. I would love to have more pets. 3. I had laser eye surgery in 2002. 4. I use to be nicknamed "Mute" at one point when I was younger... I was super shy and barely spoke. 5. I lowest weight I have ever been at my height (5'7") was 104lbs when I was about 15. 6. I found my first pet hanging from my parents' patio.. he was about 13 years old... it was a tramatic experience for me. 7. I total my first vehicle 2 months after my final payment. 8. In grade 8 I went to Florida for 3 weeks in May, then a week later in school I had my collar bone broken and was off for the rest of the year... I didn't have to write my final exams and still graduated with honours. 9. I have 2 tattoos, and would like to get at least 2 more. 10. I love cartoons. 11. I had the half top part of my left middle finger half cut off once. 12. I have poor night vision... so I hate to drive at night. 13. I've been dying my hair since I was 13. 14. I use to be afraid of the dark growing up... even in my eary teens. 15. I collect coins. 16. I still have my old Alf and Garbage Pail Kids cards. 17. I hate needles, but I still have given blood and had piercings. 18. I use to excel in French and struggled in English in school. 19. I have never gotten a speeding ticket in my life... even when I have been 35km/h over a limit... just verbal warnings or had the lights flashed to tell to slow down. 20. I use to be a gym junkie... and use to be quite muscular for a girl. 21. I never have experienced a massage. 22. I've been to more funerals than weddings. 23. Mark is the only guy I have ever dated. 24. Mom said I started walking around 9 months old, but didn't start talk til 2 years old. 25. I have death dreams often... you don't actually die in real life if you die in your dreams liek they use to say... but it's still weird... I'm aware what is going on but can't talk, move, anything... or I become a ghost... weird I know...lol