Quote: Originally Posted by merocket59 Congrats, I know it is a huge relief! Do others know that you are eloping? I know that would defeat the purpose but sometimes people tell anyway! Our whole entire family and network of friends know, so we jokingly call it our 'private wedding'.
We're getting married via cruise and this, getting married, was a spontaneous decision so we didn't want to put any pressure on our friends/family on attending the ceremony (due to cruise costs, airfare, passports, etc). So, it's just going to be us for the ceremony and we're going to host an AHR later in the year.