Quote: Originally Posted by Debs Ok, so this explaination reminds me of my relationship with Chris when we first got together, but the 'other' girl was his sister! Which was a little more sticky than it being a friend. She was insanely jealous because before me, they did everything together. It put me in a tight spot because I didn't want to deny them their bro/sis time, but it was Chris who was finally growing up and didn't want to go out clubbing every night of the week and spend more time with me.
A LOT has happened in 6 years and she STILL resents me. Oh well. What the hell can you do? I've tried being nice to her, be her 'buddy' but honestly, she's not a nice person, so what do you do?
I sooo know that feeling lol my ex husband was exactly like that! He and his sister danced so close the DJ at our wedding thought they were the ones that got married lol needless to say we didn't stay married ! and when we split up she got his wedding ring (a trophy i think lol) anyway I got even I saw her in a night club a few weeks after we split and I'd had rather one or 2 and she ended up breathing through a toilet - good job m8s pulled me off lol Sorry Hijacked!!!
I think you have to just be really brave, take a deep breath, stay calm and lay it on the line to FI. He'll listen if you are calm and rational rather than really annoyed and hysterical. Then if you do see her be really really really sickly sweet, she'll wonder what the hell is going on lol
Then when she is least expecting it get her on her own and beat the living crap out of her lmao JOKING - well maybe I would but you seem nice lol
It'll work out honestly just stay calm even if you are raging inside. x