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Serves you right for snooping lol we have a rule I don't look at his phone he doesn't look at mine lol my laptop is locked with my finger print so he can't get in their either lmao There is nothing to show but a lot of my friends are in the forces and i get drunk shots sometimes lmao makes me laugh but FI no sense of humour pmsl

Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel However, I attended a friends wedding in a garden and they didn't have a mic. I couldn't hear a THING! One rude asshole stood up and said "Speak up!" during their vows. I would have been pissed. Anyways, I vote YES for the mic. I think i'd have died laughing promptly followed by a crack to the jaw lol 3 squaddies at my wedding so hopefully no-one will dare lol I'm not having one, there will be a max of 20 and as long as we hear them I'm not bothered to be honest lol Think its personal choice like if you write your vows etc

What a cheeky mare lol does money grow on trees in your neighbourhood? lol tell her to poke off and grow up lol obviously if you're the big sister you can belt her one to lol my m8s reckon thats allowed lmao

That is constructive dismissal in the UK the bastards

Always a way out of everything, sometimes it just takes a long time to find it. You might not want to do this but how about getting a contract made up between you, you said you were a lawyer, then you get a low card and get the money straight out of his pay and you hold the purse strings until its gone.

Try and avoid debt consolidation if you can, they charge a fortune and it goes really bad on your credit history, unless of course he can get a loan with the bank for a fixed fee every month and less interest. I'd look online for a credit card with a really low balance transfer fixed rate, thats what I've done with FI's debts. Why can't blokes keep track of their own money!!!

Just read on the dreams site that the reason for the delays in the WC's getting back to everyone is that they currently have 2 weddings per day and thousands of emails and asking everyone to be patient. So if anyone is waiting for info thats probably why. I thought they only did one a day but there ya go lol wrong again!

I am soooo pleased you have the same future in laws as I have lmao I thought it was just me lol Glad you enjoyed it tho, for the record I want to throw my FMIL in the pool instead of the FSIL who is barred lmao

Very cheap I'd book that

We have a lot of those already lol, you can fly easyjet (locally known as sleazy jet!) which apparently has cheap flights you know like £1 to go to say spain but it costs £100 to get back lmao you get nowt and you have to pay for everything lol i'd die if i ever got on a flight that i didn't have to pay extra for lol I flew Royal Brunai to see dad and christ that was an experience lmao I got all the way to Bandar which was about 15 hours without going to the loo lol I still remember by dad saying if you go to the toilet on a plane you get sucked out!!! lmao They are right bandits charging extra, total con to screw people for more cash

lmao i'll watch for you on america's most wanted lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Lorilou Nordstroms has some really nice stuff also. I got a couple of nice and comfortable camis and babydolls. Thats a woodwork shop where I live lmao Quote: Originally Posted by LC_Rachel haha- same here. Plus Steve was drunk and just passed out. We had been up since 6am and didn't get to bed until 1am. It was a LONG day. Plenty of time to get it on during the honeymoon. That will be what will happen to me guarantee it lol he can't stay awake after 10pm on a night now lol So as my friend would say "wear what looks good on the floor" lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by Debs Ok, so this explaination reminds me of my relationship with Chris when we first got together, but the 'other' girl was his sister! Which was a little more sticky than it being a friend. She was insanely jealous because before me, they did everything together. It put me in a tight spot because I didn't want to deny them their bro/sis time, but it was Chris who was finally growing up and didn't want to go out clubbing every night of the week and spend more time with me. A LOT has happened in 6 years and she STILL resents me. Oh well. What the hell can you do? I've tried being nice to her, be her 'buddy' but honestly, she's not a nice person, so what do you do? I sooo know that feeling lol my ex husband was exactly like that! He and his sister danced so close the DJ at our wedding thought they were the ones that got married lol needless to say we didn't stay married ! and when we split up she got his wedding ring (a trophy i think lol) anyway I got even I saw her in a night club a few weeks after we split and I'd had rather one or 2 and she ended up breathing through a toilet - good job m8s pulled me off lol Sorry Hijacked!!! I think you have to just be really brave, take a deep breath, stay calm and lay it on the line to FI. He'll listen if you are calm and rational rather than really annoyed and hysterical. Then if you do see her be really really really sickly sweet, she'll wonder what the hell is going on lol Then when she is least expecting it get her on her own and beat the living crap out of her lmao JOKING - well maybe I would but you seem nice lol It'll work out honestly just stay calm even if you are raging inside. x

Thank god I'm not changing my name lol

God I wish my job paid for my exams let alone dog insurance lmao how lucky are u lmao

Flights out tomorrow girls - well with Thomas Cook anyway lol

Get it you can't afford not to have it!! I never had any probs with my rottie then she got really ill and it cost me 2k! thank god I had insurance but it really is worth it

I think its not worth getting yourself all chewed up over - it's probably just a thick bloke thing (you know they never put their brains in gear before their mouths lol) and think how much you can make him suffer for doing it afterwards lol In actual fact he's probably not even thinking of it being his proper wedding day or that its your anniversary - if he did he'd be contrite.

Cheers for that. I told FI and he has decided i wont see him for a week lmao fab a week with the girls lol

My FSIL has stage 4 breast cancer, she's had it for 4 years now and is fighting every day and winning to a large extent. That site will help many I think - thanks for sharing x

I'm not having bridal party either its just too much hassle for us. The rings? not really thought about it but judging the way he gave me my engagement ring I bet he puts them in his pocket lol or sporran on this occasion!

That stinks! get slaughtered it will help lol and just think if you were that bored at your job you would have been looking for something new soon - this just saved you the hassle :-)

Hi you'll find on here that they are only allowing approved photographers at Dreams Cancun - you might be wise to email them and ask them for a list of people you can use and go from there. It would be awful if you found one you loved and you couldn't take them there. BTW welcome lol

I booked the hotel for the wedding direct. I'm waiting for the flights to be out so I can get a good deal on the flights and hotel. Caribean Warehouse are in the lead lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Asteff2001 I agree about SPF 50 and staying out of the sun until the wedding! Luckily we're only going 2 days ahead, but anything can happen...We're getting married at 1 pm too, so I'm concerned about everyone getting too much sun just during the ceremony! I'm not usually a hat person, but I think I'm going to pick up a wide brimmed hat or cute baseball cap to wear for extra face protection (not for the wedding day, of course!). FI - technically DH, and I are both tanning so we have good color when we arrive and it's not a big deal for us to stay out of the sun alot before our wedding. We're going to Baja Beach Tanning Club, and we love it. Never have to make an appt and the color we're getting is amazing! Good idea lol I don't tan at all, I'm really fair and I stay that way or go scarlet and we have to be there 4 days before lol FI goes really dark its so unfair lmao Tanning before I go is no good either it just doesn't work i've not got the pigment in my skin i dont think!