Sometimes it seems that the feels are a little daunting but I honestly don't think that many resorts are much different - we figured it will probably cost us about $200 per person - including everything in our wedding e.g. flowers, dj, food, decorations, drinks etc.) Really I think the best advice is if you know what you want to try and negotiate with Perla or Elisa!
In terms of photogs - we are close to booking ours! We have two photogs that we want to fly in for the week with us and they are providing us a package which is essentially $5000 which includes Engagement shoot, wedding day, ttd, all week unlimited photography and travel and accom for the two of them! I told Elisa that they were part of our guest list and that was fine - I don't have to pay the fee cause they are staying with us for the week!