Saraha

Welcome to the forum Erica!

Like Maura said, dont do anything you arent comfortable doing. I dont know if I would be able to say anything at my grandmothers wedding. I dont know if I would be comfortable or control myself. People will understand and respect your decesion either way.

Quote: Originally Posted by Maura there really ought to be marriage laws preventing people under 21 from getting married. whoever thought 18 yr olds are old enough to make life decisions like marriage is nuts. young people just dont have mature enough minds to understand wtf theyre really getting into. sarah, i am so heartbroken for you right now. as much as i recently dont get along with my little sister, shes still my sister, and if she did this i would be so heartbroken. once your sister gets up to alaska and is all alone, shes most definitely not going to stick it out for very long before running home crying to mommy and daddy, and probably you and your other sister about how she hates it. Thanks Maura your so sweet!!! Big hug back at you! Everything will work out fine... the weird thing was I spoke with my dad on Monday to wish him a happy birthday and he didnt say anything about him getting married. I asked him how Shelby was doing and he said he is losing sleep over her right now and didnt want to even go there... well now I know why. My poor dad, probably thinks its his fault in some way knowing him.

Thanks guys! I think in shock still. I wouldnt say I am mad, more disappointed and sad if that makes sense. I thought we were close enough to where she could come to me and I would support her (most of the time) or at least help her go in the right direction. But guess not. She is still very immature and young. The guys she married I have met two times, he is also 18. I just hopes she learns from this and doesnt completely screw up her life. I know she will turn around I just hope it isnt too late.

LOL this was AFTER two hair appts to get it fixed and ewwww swimsuit pics are never flattering but thank you!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 totally off topic! But is that corn in your dogs mouth? LMAO that is the cutest thing ever lol Thats awesome!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 OMG! That is horrible. My little brother is 17 and I would KILL him if he did this. She is so going to regret this in a year when she is up in Alaska all by herself and realizes he isn't all that. Then who will she call... thats right you. The crazy thing is that he is getting deployed to Iraq. She is going to all alone in ALASKA where its freaking dark part of the year with no friends, nothing! And no husband because he will be half way around the world! I honestly dont get it, shes is a beautiful, I thought intellegent, girl who can do so much better!

Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 Eh? Why wouldn't she tell you guys? Is she pregnant? Was she trying to beat you to the alter? Good lord I hope she isnt pregnant!!! I guess she has been wanting to do this for like 4 months and my parents have been doing anything and everything in their power to stop her or atleast wait till after my wedding, but didnt work! Quote: Originally Posted by Morgan Do you think she was scared to tell you? Im sure she was, the crazy thing that its always been us three girls (my sisters) and soooooooo soooooooooo close, once she met this guy she kinda drifted. I couldnt imagine not having her apart of my wedding, but I guess she could hers HA! Quote: Originally Posted by BeckyN wow! I don't even know what to say. That just seems absolutely absurd. Does she normally do stuff like that (meaning random, out of the ordinary, crazy, etc)? Shes always been the crazy one of us. But we were raised with amazing parents with good morals and values, dont know what in the hell just happened to her! Quote: Originally Posted by Maura sarah, my major question right now is how did your parents allow this? DEF did not allow it. I guess shelby came down here and on Monday called her mom (who is actually my stepmom) anyways called her mom and they got in a HUGE HUGE fight, that night they got married and not sure if my parents have talked to her since.

LOL Maura you crack me up, although this isnt so much a laughing matter.... so heres the story. My sister meets this guy a few months ago who is in the army. At the time she was living her in phoenix and just graduated high school. Well this guy is a big time loser, dont think he even finished high school and went to some loser boarding school to whip him into shape. Well my sister, Shelby meets him they fall madly in love and within like 3 weeks are obsessed with one another. He decides hes joining the army and will be transfering to colorado. Well my parents were moving there anyways so my sister moves with my parents waiting for him to get transfered. Well time passes he never gets transfered.... He tells shelby that he has a house waiting to her in Colorado springs and the keys are there and on and on! SO she goes there..... no keys.... no house..... nothing! He lied about everything. Now any NORMAL person would think hmmmmmm thats probably not too normal maybe I should back off from a guy who made me move states and lied about getting transfered to colorado. But no of course it doesnt phase her. So I just find out all of this..... he is getting transfered to Alaska and the only way they can live together is for them to get married to live on base. So thats just what they do. I guess everyone has know for weeks. My dad hasnt spoken or looked my sister in the eyes for over a month, they have gone to therapy and everything to let her know what the hell she is doing with her life and she just doesnt get it!!! I have no idea why she didnt tell me, Im sure she thought she would get the same reaction my parents gave her. I just seriously cant believe my LITTLE 18 year old sister went up got married down the street and I have NO idea, NONE!

Hmmmmm well where do I begin..... Im sitting down eating dinner and my FI says "I heard from Cheryl (a client of his at work) Shelby (my sister) got married on monday". So of course I start laughing, theres no way she got married...... shes 18, dating a guy who lives in a different state then her, PLUS I didnt know.. So he said that he heard that from his clients daughter because she ran into my sister at the mall. So I text my dad and said I heard that Shelby got married on monday.... His reply "Call Shelby"..... Thats never good. So call shelby, were talking and she never says anything so Finally I bring it up and she says "oh yeah I was gonna call you and tell you" WTF CALL AND TELL ME!!!!! Well come to find out everyone knew she was married except for me and my other sister Jenny. AND no one told us not even my sister. My mom, dad, and sister shelby live in Colorado and I guess Shelby drove to phoenix thursday, got married at the courthouse on monday. I asked her who was all there (considering I live 5 min away to the courthouse she went to) she said zach's family (her now husbands family) and her two friends. ARE YOU SERIOUS? She is my bridesmaid and I found out from my FI's clients daughter that my sister got married when everyone in the family new about but me and my other sister!!! uhgggg OK sorry I feel better!

Quote: Originally Posted by angitalia23 Okay, I might suck because I dont have a cute pic at the moment....But I will send you big big hugs...lots & lots: smile123: Ha ha your sooo cute!! BIG HUGS BACK!!!

Quote: Originally Posted by Jenn3878 Anywho, if any difference it was how do you say "fluffy" HAHAHA Fluffy is much better than the twisted and tangled in knot snake poo than come out of their butts (online pics)

There beautiful! Thanks for sharing!

Ok well now that we are telling poop storys Heres mine haha: Ok I have had SERIOUS poop problems since I was in middle school. I wouldnt go for days and days like once a week if that and when I did I thought I was going to die. I would have severe severe cramps with it and the feeling that if you dont have a toilet near you, you have no other choice but to shit your pants. Well a long story short I was tested for many things and they told me I had IBS. I was always tired and never felt good. But about three or so years ago I went to go donate bloodwork, they told me I couldnt because I was malnurished. So since I worked in a doctors office I just went and had labs done. It came back showing that not only did I have not one vitamin in me but my liver enzymes were elevated to look like I was an alcoholic for many years. So after and endoscopy and colonoscopy they said I have celiac disease (A gluten intolerance) basically no wheat, rye, oats, barley. If I do it deteriates my intestines and therefore cant digest any vitamins.... Well I have seriously never soooo excited to find out I had a disease. I knew how to fix it and after 10+ years of hell I knew what it felt like to feel healthy again... So honestly I KNOW what your going though... when we do have them we call the "PA's"... LOL stands for poop attack.

drunk Nothin like a yummy penis!

Me and my sis The moms Holly order THREE entrees... she was hungry so had to take a pic

Ok the rest are rather embarrasing, they MADE me where stupid stuff the second night so I looked like a beauty pagent queen gone UGLY!

So my sister was walking down the stair at the big bang and ended up falling down the stair LMAO... well this guy grabbed her to pick her up and it happened to be a friend of our, how ironic! This is the next day at the pool...... YES I am posting pics of myself of a swin suit UGHHHH!

So this pic is a funny story.... my friend holly (not the girl in this pic) decided to walk up to the guy on the right and make out with him, which lasted like 2 hours. I guess hes my sisters friend, and she called him to come down to me holly. Well I guess he met her alright. After they got done kissing he goes "oh so you must be Holly"... I was like OMG Holly seriously? Heres the pic with Holly and here man (Oh yeah she made out with 5 guys that night) I was like HOLLY you freakin Hor!!!

And some hungry heffer still waiting for our food We went to a place called the big bang... a dualing piano bar. Well they freaking called me up on stage and sang a song about putting his penis inside my vagina. Thank god I was already a little buzzed otherwise it would have been way more awkward than it already was

Ok Sorry I been a slacker about this... but here is the bach party and the pics!! I had an amazing weekend!!! We started off friday with massages, lunch, manicures, and pedicure... all we amazing then got ready and went out to RA (sushi bar) and then were going to see some delish banana hammock until things took a ghetto turn for the worse! The cab dropped us off and we walk up to this shady place and they say of sorry the "show" is next weekend. I guess come to find out they "travel" place to place like a traveling circus show LOL I think its a good thing we missed it. So we ended up going out to the bars instead... here are the pics! My sisters husband got a hold of the "parafanelia" (sp) I was supposed to wear and put some good use to the penis water bottle! On the way to dinner! About to eat some yummy sushi

LMAO, yuo guys are cracking me up!!!!

Thats great Ana, I was training for one in December, got up to about 10 miles and hurt my knee and couldnt run for three months. Now I am a lazy heffer and its getting hot and dont wanna do it.

Quote: Originally Posted by beachbride08 OK, I can't find the chair tie pic. I think it was on our old computer that crashed, but this pic makes me laugh. My FI and I went to the wax museum in Vegas, and were the only ones in there so we were goofing around. This pic was one my favorites. LMAO, thats awesome!

LOL I forgot this whole thread was to post pics, I promise they will be on here when I get home!