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JulieG

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  1. I personally like Jake and think he would be a good bachelor.

     

    I love Reid and think they should be together, so I would be happy if they ended up together.

     

    I am not surprised that Wes was not there, he is an ass and is not smart enough to defend himself on national TV so his publicist told him not to go for sure.

     

    I still love Michael as well, I wish she picked him, I would love for him to be the next bachelor, that would be cool.

  2. I agree that she is not finished with Reid. I really like him and was sad to see him go. I used to kinda like Ed, now I am not a fan at all. I think he will not be the man she is looking for, he left for work, he will leave her for work again, I don't think he is sincere, he told her he loved her and I think that is BS, the other 2 are so honest and he is just saying what he thinks he should say. And, if he couldn't get it up, that is an issue for sure, she was totally looking for sex and that didn't happen, there is a reason for that. I can't wait to see the next 2 episodes, they are going to be fun for sure. Ed is the worst dresser, those shorts and that outfit he was wearing at the rose ceremony, soooo bad.

  3. Quote:
    Originally Posted by BachataBride View Post
    I have to disagree with you now! lol
    I don't think that she came to this realization on her own really. It's not like Wes was being "his Jillian self" this week with her. He was acting very distant, & being more like his real life self - he wasn't putting on an act this week. I personally think that he wanted to go home this week & showed it. Had he acted like he has the rest of the show with her then I'm not 100% sure he would be gone. I think it was more his choice than hers. (IMO!)
    I have to AGREE with you. LMAO. You do make a good point and you are right, he totally was not himself and was being distant, because he was ready to go, I never thought about it that way.
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    Originally Posted by BachataBride View Post
    I have lost respect for Jillian with the whole Wes thing & I just don't think she deserves any of them. I know it's us seeing it from the outside in - but she just seems too oblivious to it all!
    I totally disagree with you, not to be contrary, but we have ALL been in relationships with idiots and others have seen it and tried to tell us, but we needed to find out on our own, no one can tell you the one you are with is wrong for you and make you believe it, you have to find out on your own. He was "the bad boy" and I am sure we have all been in the situation where the bad boy was the one we wanted the most, till we figured out how wrong he was for us, bad boys have an allure that most women like, till they figure out they are just bad. I think she came to that realization on her own and that is how she needed to do it, sure someone else might still be here instead, but everything happens for a reason, maybe she is not meant to be with any of them, but she would have always wondered about Wes if she had let him go sooner and not figured out what an ass he was (I think she said that herself actually). I can't wait till she watches the show and sees what a total ass he is and how blind she was.
  5. I would never ever buy something that Wes was selling, but I know some women out there like him and will totally buy into it. I really hope he fails miserably at his music career for what he did to Jillian saying "I am the first guy to make it to the final 4 with a girlfriend" I hope his girlfriend dumps his ass. I hope he shows to the tell all.

     

    I guess I am going for Reid, I don't love any of them, all the ones I liked got kicked off, I loved Jake. It will be an interesting tell all and finale that is for sure.

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    Originally Posted by starchild View Post
    Rule #1 if you want to be happy - recognize that your wedding is not a big deal to anyone but you.

    For all intents and purposes it means nothing to anyone except you and the person you are marrying. Some people are excited for you, willing to spend money to attend, happy to buy you gifts, etc. but you aren't the first person to get married and you won't be the last. So what, who cares, move along.

    Don't give this anymore thought, just do your own thing. It doesn't matter how long he is home and where he will be. He is home, get it? Some people don't come home, how about that? Who cares who is favored? Who cares about a guilt trip?

    Seriously, peace of mind will come when you realize that your wedding will come and go like a rainstorm and then what? Find something else to be upset about? Stop it. You are in love. Be happy, be free, stop sweating the small stuff.
    Very well said!!!
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    Originally Posted by jean-marcus View Post
    i can feel your pain and distrust becuse of your past being cheated on. but you have to trust your fiance and put all that behind you. you gotta learn from your past but not bring it into your current relationship. there is one thing that will kill a relationship faster than anything and that is jealousy and distrust. believe me I have broken up with a few women because of that.
    Ditto, I totally agree!
  8. Please do not take any offense to this, but it says you are from Ingersoll, if that is the case, the smaller the town the more acceptable it is for some reason, people just love to go out and party and it does not matter what its for, DH is from Brussels and its the same thing, anywhere in Huron County can have a Buck and Doe on a holiday (last one was on Good Friday) and they still have a huge turn out and make money. I really do think it matters where you live and the age group of the people being invited. In bigger cities its not as well attended and people seem to be a lot more opinionated when you are having a DW and they are not attending it and are expected to spend money or are attending it and are expected to spend MORE money.

  9. Quote:
    Originally Posted by Perplexy View Post
    This may be my FI's and my first major disagreement! He's so gung-ho for letting his brother throw us one!
    Ahh, that sucks that your FI really want's one and you don't. Luckily my DH and I were on the same page and both didn't want one. Can you tell him to tell his brother to just concentrate on having an awesome stag for him? That might be good enough for him if all he wants is a party.

    I was a BM for a couple who had a DW and they had a buck n doe, and I am not lying when I tell you that hardly anyone showed up and they pretty much broke even. I had to go because I was a BM, but people were pissed that they were spending so much on going to the wedding and were "expected" to give them money at their buck n doe as well. Others didn't want to go because they were not going to the wedding, so they didn't want to give money towards it and not even be a part of it. Just an FYI, maybe you could tell your FI that and see what he thinks.

    I think you should try to talk FI out of it, its really not something you should do when you are having a DW. That is just my opinion and that of people I talked to.
  10. I am going to be very honest here, but it does not mean I am right, its just how I feel. We did not have one, my bridal party wanted to throw us one and DH and I told them NO and don't even think about it. I think its totally tacky to ask people to donate money to helping out with your wedding when they are not going to be there or they are spending a lot of money to be there. You could have a party and not make it about making money, but one that is about making money IMHO is very tacky for a DW

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