Yeah, I am planning on booking my own vendors for everything. That seems to be the easiest on the pocket book! I don't have any info on musicians (haven't gotten that far yet!) But the girls on the board will be able to help, they are such an a great resource!
You will love the Hilton! Everyone does! In general this resort is very service orientated! Check out the reviews from everyday guests on Tripadvisor. It doesn't get much better than that!