I'm new to this forum but I've been lurking (as a guest) previously.
So here's the story:
We met on OKCupid - he messaged me for the first time February 8, 2012.
Our anniversary is February 18 (that was our very first blind date).
After many, many escapades and adventures, we are still together (so, over three years now).
I lived in Japan for a goodly amount of time (not too long, not too short), and moved back to the US around August/Sept 2011.
We went to Japan for a vacation Winter 2013-2014.
We went to China for vacation Winter 2014-2015.
Now we are going to Japan again in the summer (2015).
The reason why I am so nervous is because my good friend who lives in Japan (she came to NYC in January 2015) posted on fb the following post:
"Facebook friends, I implore your help!
I need suggestions for a short (maybe 3 days?), romantic trip in Japan.
I have a friend planning a proposal and he wants to do it while he and his girlfriend are here (in 2 weeks) ...
(I put it in quotes).
Now, I hope this isn't egotistical of me, but I think this might be my boyfriend!!!
We are arriving in Japan in a little over two weeks, and our trip there is really, really short (like ten days). I don't know if this is being planned or not!
I'm totally going crazy and I want to talk to my friends about it but I'm trying to keep cool and not tell anyone for two reasons:
1) this might not be me (although I really, really think it is!)
2) I don't want to ruin the surprise.
But I had to share it with someone so I'm posting to this forum! This is really crazy guys!!
I'm like, too excited and nervous.