Thank you everyone so much for your support
I really appreciate it.
I was second guessing myself as to whether or not I was being unfair to her or actually being self-centered as she told me a few times in a few emails.
I know none of you know me personally and I'm really not trying to toot my own horn - I know I can be a b.itch in some circumstances, but everything to do with our wedding I have been pretty laid back about. I don't even get upset if people tell me they can't make it - we wanted it small regardless. I know not everyone can make the financial committment.
But I do expect that when you accept being in someone's bridal party back in DECEMBER that you would make every effort possible to come. I get that her husband's ulcer rupturing is probably stressing her out - but, as I told her on the weekend, she has to look at the positives like the fact that he didn't need to have surgery for it.
Thanks again for everyone's opinions and views on this really touchy and ridiculous subject...