i guess i am just at a total shock with my family and my soon to be new family. my future sister in law (my FI sister) just got married last weekend in green bay wisconsin. a lot of the extended family for them asked why we didnt announce our engagement, i just claimed it was because the sister was getting married and we didnt want to take away from her. so now that everything is said and done, people are contacting us seeing if we are truly interested in doing a destination wedding. i am kinda shocked that people are asking because when we were telling people about it, they were so excited and said that they wanted to go. now everyone is raising questions to see if we are for real on this. my FI and i have talked about doing this ever since our friends got married at dreams cancun. now i am just torn on what to do... i already got my hopes up and my family and friends hopes up saying we are doing a destination wedding.. but now i am getting a lot of flack from the inlaws and them saying a lot of people from our side of the family can't go. i thought that is what the AHR was for but i guess i was wrong. idk please help with this.. i guess right now if i dont get my mom and dad to go, i won't do an DW but if they will go i already said i would do it. idk help!! i will keep you updated with everything as it comes.