After talking about when and where we want to get married (I never wanted a traditional wedding and he hates being the center of attention), we figured that a destination wedding may work out quite nicely for us. NOW, he is freaking out about the costs it will take guests to get there and guests taking time out of their schedules to come to our wedding. He acts as if the wedding is unworthy. I keep telling him that this is for us. My parents (who are footing the bill) and friends are totally psyched to be given an opportunity to take a vacation. His family is getting mad that they don't get to choose where they vacation and how much money it will take to get there. His family takes vacations EVERY year, usually multiple. I have been on three vacations with them in the past two years which I have dutifully paid the flights. Yet, they are mad because we choose to have a destination wedding in Cabo. I realize that it is a bit more expensive to get to Cabo but I feel as if their reasoning is unjustified. On top of this, his family is important to him (which I treasure) but they are totally swaying him to change his mind on a DW all together. EEEK.