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No, I am def not picking something for him (unless he fails to get something by the time the wedding iis here!). But I had to change my "whatever you want to wear" and add "with my approval". Only b/c he thinks that you shouldn't have to wear a shirt if you are on the beach - wedding or not. So, needless to say, I changed my mind real quick and let him know that he can pick out anything he wants within reason. Can't be too careful!

 

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i am definitely seeing a trend that hadn't occured to me before, did you ladies all pick out what your guys will wear? am i the only one that never thought to pick it out for him? i guess he did show it to me after bought it, and i was with him when he picked out the pants ... but it never occured to me to actually pick something FOR him! lol

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If I didn't do the research and give him some options, he'd probably show up in his swim shorts. As long as he's dressed I really don't care, but I have to be involved because to get him to take care of anything is like pulling teeth.

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i am definitely seeing a trend that hadn't occured to me before, did you ladies all pick out what your guys will wear? am i the only one that never thought to pick it out for him? i guess he did show it to me after bought it, and i was with him when he picked out the pants ... but it never occured to me to actually pick something FOR him! lol
I am in the same club as Paul. I picked everything out myself and did not even show Karen until the wedding day.

I went for the no tie look. It was already hot enough in the suit and shirt. I did bring one with me just in case I changed my mind at the last minute though.

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the original guybera (sp?) shirt that paul bought he didn't like. so we went shopping the week before we left for Mexico, and he bought a couple light white shirts. he decided the morning of the wedding which one he was going to wear! then he wore the other one for our legal ceremony in Hawaii.

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No, I am def not picking something for him (unless he fails to get something by the time the wedding iis here!). But I had to change my "whatever you want to wear" and add "with my approval". Only b/c he thinks that you shouldn't have to wear a shirt if you are on the beach - wedding or not. So, needless to say, I changed my mind real quick and let him know that he can pick out anything he wants within reason. Can't be too careful!
I said the same thing ("whatever you want to wear"), but then Mike got all excited and told his GMs they were wearing tux t-shirts. He even went so far as to research them online and find ones with bouteneirs that match my BMs dresses! So, saying I don't care what he wears only goes so far!

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OMG, that is too funny. Once I told Matt that he HAD to wear a shirt, he said, fine how bout a tuxedo t-shirt? I told him NO WAY! Then I told him, we can do tuxedo t-shirts for the reception, cuz it is kinda funny. But I want at least some nice and pretty pics!

 

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I said the same thing ("whatever you want to wear"), but then Mike got all excited and told his GMs they were wearing tux t-shirts. He even went so far as to research them online and find ones with bouteneirs that match my BMs dresses! So, saying I don't care what he wears only goes so far!

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I told my FI what other GM's wore for there beach ceremony and he liked the idea as well as I. In the end I got the same response as always "whatever makes you happy."

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OMG, that is too funny. Once I told Matt that he HAD to wear a shirt, he said, fine how bout a tuxedo t-shirt? I told him NO WAY! Then I told him, we can do tuxedo t-shirts for the reception, cuz it is kinda funny. But I want at least some nice and pretty pics!
smile120.gif I told Mike he could wear the tux t-shirt the ENTIRE time we're there, with the exception of the actual ceremony because I want nice pics!

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