Hey there fellow SM's!
It's been a while since I have been on the site, as FI and I have finally moved into our new home and can breathe a little. When I say a little it's a real quick breather LOL. $$$ keep passing before our eyes and boy-o-boy I need a and it ain't coffee LOL. There hasn't been much on the home front regarding the future stepdaughter who will soon turn 19, especially since she simply hasn't responded to anything that I may even mention regarding the wedding. So, with that said I am going to continue to keep her in the loop as I do with my bridal party and if she calls/responds she does and if she doesn't she simply do not.
I have decided that this is OUR day (her father's and I), so I will not chase any young adult, old adult or anyone else down for that matter to participate. I have contacted my bridal party regarding the "Girls Day Out" breakfast, 2 bridal appointments, 2 bridesmaid appointments, make-up trials by my make-up artist that will travel to Cancun with us, pictures and dinner. I have received a response from everyone but her (even from those living in CO and TN) that can not make it. However; to date I have received NADA, Zilch, Zero from her. Therefore, if I do not receive a response, she will not be included point blank. I know that her dad maybe a little upset, however; she's not a kid and frankly is acting rather selfishly. In addition, he hears me planning and knows that she hasn't responded to date.
Our Girls Day Out is June 11th, so I will keep you posted on what happens or simply what doesn't.... this is really a pain in the