What's the Etiquette for this Situation?

[BeachBridein11]

LOL  Feels so good to vent, eh?  I will have to agree with cookiemunchkin, I should probably get it off my chest and ask her and hopefully she really didn't mean what she said.  Either way, as days go by, I know it won't bother me as much.  My MoH is great and so is my other bridesmaid!!  They are so excited for me, even when I have my down moments.  I'm sorry you don't have that Queendiva and MyPaperProposal... I hate to ask, but is there anyone else who has stepped up and should be your MoH?

[MyPaperProposal]

I'm thinking that if things don't work out with my current MOH, I may just not have one at all.  We're only have twenty people at the wedding, so we are only having a MOH and a Best Man... There are a couple of girls going that I could ask to stand up with me, but they've only met my fiance a couple of times, so I'm not sure it feels right. 

[cougs]

hehe maybe you two should be each other's new MOHs!

 

it sucks when we find out exactly where we stand with some friends. trust me when i tell you that you will not think about the people who chose not to attend your wedding ONE BIT on wedding day. it somehow works out that exactly the right people will be there.

[BeachBridein11]

Update....

 

She emailed me the other day asking if I was mad at her 'cause she choose a date that I wouldn't be able to attend.  Long story short, I told her I was upset I couldn't attend her wedding, but wasn't holding that against her.  I told her I was mad about the other available date... it was either I misheard or she mispoke, but the other date was NOT my wedding!  So we're good.  Still stinks I can't go to the wedding, but at least I still have a friend!

[MDLady]

I'm glad that you were able to resolve things, even if you cannot attend.  The last 2-3 years ALL of my friends have been getting married so at times people have conflicts.  One of my best friends announced that she was pregnant about 4 months before our wedding so she didn't make it.  Of course I wanted her there but I understood.  As long as you have a reasonable explanation for not being able to attend, and make sure that you celebrate with her in another way (bridal shower, bachelorette party, etc), then you guys should be fine

[QueenDiva]

Yeah, my cousin has really stepped up, she helps out alot. I promoted her to my "Angel of Honor"- we both liked that better, lol.

[BeachBridein11]

I like it!  I'm so happy that you have someone that has been helping you!