I'm with ya!! It just blows my mind that people have so much to say about someone else's plans! Not cool.
I love that concept!!
The bottom line is: If people want to participate in YOUR DAY, then they have to be on YOUR SCHEDULE! Period. I'm not asking anyone when they're available, if they like the resort or location, if they are ok with being outside, if they can afford it, etc..... Its up to me and my man! B/c its funny how people will whine about being broke, but they will be spending large sums on Christmas. Watch! I aint thinking about them. Quite frankly, we could just elope and that would be much easier. So they should be thanking us for inviting them!