Hey everyone... So yesterday, although we had tried earlier in the weekend, my FH and I finally had the talk we needed. We've been through hell since our engagement started (family, stress, etc.) and everything came to a head this past week. We finally worked out EVERYTHING that has been going on and decided that for our sanity we need to move the date to 2012. We will probably have it in February so that we can escape the cold and get to Mexico, and I am SO at peace with this decision.
The only problem now is that our resort says they have literally never had this happen where someone wants to book so far in advance but hey, that means our date is WIDE open now. lol
Thanks for the support girls, it helps so much to vent to those not directly involved in the situation, as many of you know.
I am SO much less stressed and much happier now- we both feel like ourselves again.