Honeymoon Phase...what honeymoon phase?
Posted 26 January 2010 - 08:42 PM
Posted 27 January 2010 - 02:04 AM
Oh no! I am so sorry to hear. I had the same problem with my BF a couple of years ago. We broke up because I said I was too old for that. He agreed to some counselling and I have to admit I found it really helpful. But I think you need to speak up, because it is not going to get better until you do.
So so so so sorry for you!
I am hoping my wedding doesn't turn into a guys trip...I feel your pain!
Love to you!
Posted 27 January 2010 - 10:44 PM
| Originally Posted by Karen Aucoin |
I guess the way I've handled it lately is to try to do more stuff for me and while I know that's good for me and I like that we have our independence I just think he needs to realize that while we may have the rest of our lives together I want to do things together now. That's always his line, "What's the big deal, we have the rest of our lives together to hang out," etc.
Good luck with all of this, hope you have a happy ending.
Posted 28 January 2010 - 12:26 AM
But you have to speak up. If he doesn't change at least you have tried, you know?
I think once you voice your opinion he will understand better. And stay on his ass about it. It took awhile for FI to understand I was serious but he grew up and we are better than ever.
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