Replacing a bridesmaid :(
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:00 AM
I wish you all the best in whatever you choose to do.
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:13 AM
Mr. & Mrs. Rangel!!!
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:24 AM
I think you should do both - not replace her, she obviously meant a lot to you, so you will still know that it is her place your friend would be filling. But I also think you should put an extra bouquet on the table or something, to signify her presence as well. Yes, it is your wedding - but part of getting married is sharing that with all the people that you care about, and your niece was one of those people. And although she can't be there physically, I'm sure she'll be watching and supporting you from whereever she is now.
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:37 AM
I think it's a 100% okay to not replace her and have uneven attendants, but you do whatever feels right to you. I do think that a 'memory' gesture would be nice regardless if you replace her or not.
Best of luck in your decision.
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:00 PM
Posted 21 October 2009 - 09:07 PM
I don't think it would be depressing to honor your niece, I think it would be very sweet of you.
Posted 22 October 2009 - 12:10 PM
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