What to say to family not invited but think they're coming anyway?
Posted 14 August 2009 - 07:20 PM
I have not had a single stress in planning my DW until now.
I have a "crazy uncle and aunt" who fight with my dad constantly. They are always competing with my dad to "one up him" (to the point that they drove 4 hours to see me at an airport during a stopover to meet my FH just so they could say that they met him first!!)
I did not invite them to my Hawaii wedding because we are only having immediate family and our closest friends. They wouldn't be able to afford to come anyway so we are having an AHR when we get back.
My grandmother now informs me that she is helping them pay to come.
How do I get them not to come? They were not even invited and the stress of them being there is driving me crazy. We only have only 30 people or so. It is not like I can sit them in the far corner away from my dad.
I need help
Posted 14 August 2009 - 09:15 PM
Posted 14 August 2009 - 11:46 PM
Posted 15 August 2009 - 08:26 PM
Otherwise, if you can bear it, be honest and say that you feel it would impact negatively on your day.
Good luck with it either way. Families are the worst in a wedding - no matter what your situation is.
Posted 15 August 2009 - 08:45 PM
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