None of my FI family going to wedding
Posted 29 July 2009 - 05:57 PM
Posted 29 July 2009 - 09:34 PM
When I was upset about people who aren't going someone on this forum told me to just remember that the day is about the two of you, and you can't let the people who aren't going take that away. The people who are there will just make it all the more special.
.. it's definitely helped me get thru some of the guest-related stress
Posted 30 July 2009 - 10:55 AM
ebbica thats what hurts me even more. His friends are not coming either. His now 2 groomsmen (his BM was supposed to be his bro who is now not coming) one is his friend now but have been my friends since young. So it is not part of his friends that he grew up with and the other GM is my little cousin. He does have 1 friend who is going and get this..they only have known eachother for 4 months!! His fam and close friends arent going but this person who has become a great friend in a short time can put the effort to make it and is already booked...unbelievable. My FI was so excited when he booked and I was so happy for him :-)
Posted 30 July 2009 - 11:14 AM
I just want to say Im in the same boat. My FI family are the ones booking..Mine are the broke ones I'll admit we didnt give everyone a year to a year and half advance notice so Im not taking it to heart..but I too have been putting on a brave face with my family and friends..regardless it does hurt.
I know its not intentional which is why I have been able to brush it off (somewhat) I really do appreciat the fact that FI's family will be there, and thankfully my sister and 2 girlfriends..MY BFF isnt even attending...but thats a whole other VENT that i wont get into..lol.
I just wanted to say that regardless if no one else is there..the only one that truly matters are you and him..everything will turn out beautfully!
Posted 30 July 2009 - 11:21 AM
As for FI's family. Only his mother (we are paying for her to come) and his 2 brothers with a gf are coming. He's ok with that because those are the only people he is close to in his family except for his grandmother who is 89 and won't travel.
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