Am I being unreasonable?
Posted 12 June 2007 - 07:54 PM
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:00 PM
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:01 PM
If she is THAT mad then it may not be worth fighting over. What does your FI say - it's his sister so maybe leave the decision up to him?
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:02 PM
I understand that it is YOUR wedding, but don't you want everyone else including her to have a good time too? If it is really going to bug you to have someone there that you've never met, can you arrange to get together with the two of them a few times before the trip?
Just my 2 cents....sorry it's probably not what you wanted to hear.
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:03 PM
Just my opinion though!
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:05 PM
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:08 PM
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:09 PM
| Originally Posted by Rkiss |
My FI sister just started dating someone and she wants to bring him to the wedding. We are getting married in Mexico and have 25 people coming, each and everyone I know very well and I don't think it is appropriate for her to bring someone we have never met. They have only been dating for about three months (will be seven by the wedding but who knows) She feels that it is customary to bring a date to the wedding but does this count if you are having a destination wedding?? I don't want him to come and she is mad as hell. What do I do? She is now saying that she is not coming if her BF can't come. I am so angry and feel that she is being really selfish. She is going to be my sister in law... should I just let her bring some strange guy to MY wedding because she is my FI's sister? I am so stuck on this.
IMHO I'd let her bring him just to keep the peace. If they break up before then, you were still the good guy who said he could come. If they end up staying together, you didn't exclude him from his first family function. Plus, having him there doesn't mean you have to talk to him or anything. Think of it as the more the merrier!!!
Btw - you are totally right for thinking she is being rude and selfish. She should never have approached you with this - but since she did, deal with it as best you can!
Posted 12 June 2007 - 08:11 PM
Perhaps, if you want to spare her feelings, you can use the budget card.
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