AHR : DH does not see the point...
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:11 PM
Anyway, DH does not see the point... for him, we're married, it's done. We had a first, a second wedding ceremony, people culd not come, c'est la vie.
I'm trying to explain it's just a 2-3 hours cocktail, have a drink with friends to celebrate ! But he says : yeah, and you need a place, and booze, and food... it's all the same !
In the end, he'll do what I want to do, but it will be more to please me or at best to avoid a lengthy discussion. I don't want to have him see this as a burden or something useless that he'll just have to bear with me...
Not sure I will be able to convince him here
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:23 PM
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Posted 30 June 2009 - 04:40 PM
I like the idea of informally getting together with friends, as opposed to another "sponsored" event.
Whatever you do, it'll be fun - enjoy the company of friends and fam!
Posted 30 June 2009 - 04:48 PM
| Originally Posted by MegaShay |
I have to agree with Julie. I wanted a DW to avoid all the stress and $$ of a wedding at home. Having a big AHR seems to defeat that purpose, but my future in-laws are insisting on it and paying for it. But if FI and I were the ones that had to pay for it, the DW would be it.
Posted 01 July 2009 - 11:55 AM
well now, it turns out the places i wanted to do it in are all closed... not helping...
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