AHR : DH does not see the point...
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:11 PM
Anyway, DH does not see the point... for him, we're married, it's done. We had a first, a second wedding ceremony, people culd not come, c'est la vie.
I'm trying to explain it's just a 2-3 hours cocktail, have a drink with friends to celebrate ! But he says : yeah, and you need a place, and booze, and food... it's all the same !
In the end, he'll do what I want to do, but it will be more to please me or at best to avoid a lengthy discussion. I don't want to have him see this as a burden or something useless that he'll just have to bear with me...
Not sure I will be able to convince him here
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:23 PM
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:25 PM
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:42 PM
Posted 30 June 2009 - 03:43 PM
| Originally Posted by JulieG |
I agree with him, you have had a lot of celebrations already and having a party in France means you have to spend money again on the food, drinks, location, etc... when you have already done all that. Maybe you could just go out for drinks with your friends to celebrate, but not throw a cocktail party, does that make sense. But this is coming from someone who didn't have an AHR because I didn't see the point in spending all that money when we already spent a lot of money on our DW.
Posted 30 June 2009 - 04:40 PM
I like the idea of informally getting together with friends, as opposed to another "sponsored" event.
Whatever you do, it'll be fun - enjoy the company of friends and fam!
Posted 30 June 2009 - 04:48 PM
| Originally Posted by MegaShay |
I have to agree with Julie. I wanted a DW to avoid all the stress and $$ of a wedding at home. Having a big AHR seems to defeat that purpose, but my future in-laws are insisting on it and paying for it. But if FI and I were the ones that had to pay for it, the DW would be it.
Posted 01 July 2009 - 11:55 AM
well now, it turns out the places i wanted to do it in are all closed... not helping...
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