I feel hopeless.
Posted 01 June 2009 - 09:19 PM
Posted 01 June 2009 - 09:30 PM
And as for planning your own bachelorette party, I know my one friend did that, just so it would be the way she wanted it to be....
Posted 01 June 2009 - 09:32 PM
I can tell you from my own experience that on your wedding day, the people who did not travel with you, won't even cross your mind. All you will be thinking about is that its your wedding day & you are marrying the one you love, surrounded by friends & family who support you & love you too. You'll have such a wonderful time with the friends & family who do attend that you won't even remember the other people's names!
And when you return home & share your experience with the people who didn't come & they see your beautiful pictures & hear from your other guests how amazing everything was, they will be the ones who regret that they didn't make it!!!
Vent all you need to, cry about now, get it all out & then put it in the back of your mind. I too was overwhelmed & highly surprised by the people who came with us who I didn't really expect to come, while family members & close friends found reasons for why they couldn't make it. I don't know why it always seems to happen that way, but it does.
I do know that my friendships/relationships definitely became stronger with those that supported us through our journey and for that I'm grateful.
You'll get through this & you'll be fine!
Posted 01 June 2009 - 09:37 PM
Posted 01 June 2009 - 10:02 PM
Posted 01 June 2009 - 10:52 PM
Attending a DW is a lot to ask from some people, just because they don't come doesn't mean they don't love you. Both my brother and Brandon's brother won't be there. My brother and his wife can afford it but she doesn't do well with travel and has a lot of medical issues. His brother is in school and just doesn't have the extra money. As much as we'll miss them we'll still have a wonderful time-and you will too.
Posted 02 June 2009 - 01:01 AM
ENJOY your special day with the friends and family that are making the effort to be there with you!
Posted 02 June 2009 - 10:41 AM
Posted 02 June 2009 - 10:47 AM
we all know how you feel it will pass, I promise!
Posted 02 June 2009 - 11:25 AM
I also planned my own bachelorette all girls Vegas trip and my fiance's bachelor party. I was frustrated at first, but now I can't wait!
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