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#41 Goldstein to Be

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    Posted 01 May 2009 - 04:27 PM

    I wish there was something I could do. I think all of us are a bit nervous to see what happens. I'm really sorry you didn't have more time. Hopefully, everything will turn out ok.

    #42 janina01

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      Posted 01 May 2009 - 04:36 PM

      Aww, I'm really sorry to hear that you canceled your wedding.. I really can't believe makes most people believe how bad the situation is when it's really not.. There are worst things that can happen to people so for now, chin up and I wish you well and when that day finally comes, you will have the best day of your life and will be happy that it was worth the wait:) Best of luck!

      #43 sjfreimark

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        Posted 03 May 2009 - 02:22 PM

        Awww sweetie I am soooooo sorry. This is such a horrible thing but remember this (even though it might be so hard to do right now!).......it doesn't matter the location. The only thing that matters is that you and your FI have each other. With that being said I know that does not make the sting feel any better.
        I have to tell you a story that I am still having difficulty with but I am finding it easier as each day passes. I will be graduating this month with my B.A. in Elementary Education and because of this wonderful economy I do not know if there will be any teaching jobs out there for me. More than likely there will not be. Education has taken such a huge lose On top of this my FI is a draftsman for an engineering company and his hours have been cut. That being said it is making it extremely difficult to try and finance a wedding in Cabo San Lucas when, at this point, we are living pay check to pay check. So I have had to cancel my dreams of a Destination Wedding to Mexico. We live in Boise, Idaho so we thought about just having our wedding on the Oregon Coast and then doing a dinner reception. We will then honeymoon in Cabo. Not exactly what I wanted to do but sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do. Maybe in a couple of years you and your FI can renew your vows wherever you had planned on getting married. Remember all of your planning ideas and just do them then.
        My thoughts are with you and please let us know how you are doing and keep us informed with your Vegas plans!!! You are going to have a beautiful wedding wherever the location :). Keep your head up and remember........sometimes you have to have bad days to make the good one's that much better!!!!

        #44 janina01

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          Posted 04 May 2009 - 10:45 AM

          Sooo true SJFREIMARK! Love your response So positive, I LOOOVE it! Congratulations to you as well and all the best to the both of yous!

          #45 bermygurl

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            Posted 04 May 2009 - 11:19 AM

            I am so sorry to hear the news, I know that you and your love will find another location to celebrate your love for each other. After all the tears, you will find your way

            #46 krebsler

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              Posted 04 May 2009 - 01:17 PM

              I heart aches for you and your FI. I cannot even imagine what you are going through and how you must be feeling. It was a difficult decision but be glad that you and your FI are healthy and that your family is all safe. Imagine if you had gone and some of your guests got sick, that would be even worse! I know it's hard to have any emotions besides anger, frustration and sadness but try and be thankful you have eachother and that you will get through this whole crazy swine situation together. I feel for you and hope tomorrow will be a brighter day! Good luck and keep us posted on your plans.

              #47 sstotz

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                Posted 07 May 2009 - 12:16 AM

                :'o( SO sorry to hear! That must havent been the hardest decision yet! Best of Luck!
                ~Soon to be Shanny May
                June 20th, 2009
                Cabo San Lucas, MX


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