Wedding is off.. Moved back home..
Posted 23 March 2009 - 07:57 AM
Posted 23 March 2009 - 08:21 AM
As a mom you have to think about what is best for not only you but your daughter and of course having her dad in her life is really important but you and her dad having a healthy relationship (dating, married or just co-parenting) is the most important thing.
Overall, I wish you the best of luck and please feel free to use BDW as your sounding board. You have a huge community of women many of whom have been through incredibly difficult life choices. We are all here for you!
Posted 23 March 2009 - 08:50 AM
DH and I had a few rough patches before we got married, but we worked through them. I'm not sure if you want to work through them, but I agree with Christine - maybe counselling will help. I know it's going to be a lot harder now to work on it since you are both in different provinces, but it can be done if that is what you want.
I also know that it is going to be a lot harder since everyone knows you are having trouble. But in an earlier thread someone said that you have to forget about them & do whats best for you & your daughter.
I wish you all the best in whatever you decide and know that we are always here for you! Oh...and if you are near Kitchener, ON let me know & we can meet up.
Posted 23 March 2009 - 09:04 AM
Posted 23 March 2009 - 09:15 AM
Posted 23 March 2009 - 09:16 AM
Calling off a wedding is not easy.. I've been there. I wish you the best and hopefully this situation will either allow you guys to prevent more pain going forward.. or allow you to take a closer look at your relationship and make things even better going forward.
Hang in there and we're here whenever you need to vent!
Posted 23 March 2009 - 09:24 AM
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