Thanks for all the great tips! I have started filling up my OOT bags, so far I have insulated tumblers with straws (end of season sale at superstore!), custom door knob do not disturb signs, beach towels and flip flops for my bridesmaids only, glow sticks for the kids, and our bags we got at target(for 59 cents each!! honestly for that price I didn't care what colour they are...they don't say target or anything!), My mother in law bought sky lanterns for the guests to send off after the reception, but our resort will not allow this...so I guess they can just take them home. We will give everyone a welcome letter with an engagement picture. My Fianc© likes the idea of the hangover kits so I think we will add those as well. I'm still not sure if it will fit all into my one suitcase...I'm thinking I may have to bring a second one.