| Originally Posted by heather007 |
I like the tv too much to sell it!!!! LoL.
No, like money isn't really the issue. At this exact moment it is, but, as I said, he does make more, individually, than what an average couple combined does, so it's not whether or not we need to urgently sell off our possessions to come up with the cash. Plus, things lose so much value once they are owned, so I would feel very upset after spending so much money on something and not getting that money back.
I know that, if we have to, we will take out a loan, then after the wedding, within a few months, we can pay it off.
I also do blame myself, because I am very good with money, that I did not take the wedding budget in my own hands. I am the one who is doing all the buying/planning/etc., so in all actualilty, I should be the one controlling the money for it too, instead of always going to him to get it.
This has definately been a huge eye opener for both of us. We both need to work on this together, and I don't want to blame him 100% for it, because that gets us, as a couple, no where. Thankfully, we caught it before it got much worse.
ok that is different since you like the tv too. if everytime you looked at it, it made you angry about how much it costs, then I'd think it's worth selling even for 1/2 what you paid.