We need a sub-forum just for family problems... (Warning: LONG!)
Posted 25 September 2008 - 06:06 PM
Posted 25 September 2008 - 06:07 PM
| Originally Posted by KLC77 |
Well, I haven't read anybody else's responses, but here's what I think. Sometimes you need to eliminate negative people from your life. And unfortunately sometimes those people are related to you.
Posted 25 September 2008 - 06:09 PM
That is exactly right. All that saddness and anger comes from wishing things were different. Tell them whatever you need to, but don't expect them to change. Eventually you'll figure out what you need to do for YOU. Good luck.
Posted 25 September 2008 - 06:10 PM
| Originally Posted by cheese_diva |
I haven't read the other responses but sounds like you need to choose your family.. either you'll continue torturing yourself trying to please your parents or choose your new family.. you and Marc. Your husband will need you to make a decision.. What happens if you have kids and they treat your kids that way? I would suggest reading the book by Dr. Laura "Ten Stupid Things Couples do to Mess up Their Relationships".. might help you get over your issues with your family and have a happy life with your new hubby without the guilt.
Posted 25 September 2008 - 10:31 PM
Posted 25 September 2008 - 11:47 PM
A letter? In person?
I recommend one of these two- phone conversations are nasty! If in person totally freaks you out, start with the letter. If they call you after, and it starts to go south, you need to set a date to discuss things in person. People need time to react, and my predication is that it probably won't be pretty. Be prepared for that, and hopefully it will go better than you think.
God bless Marc for being supportive and not shooting back! That takes a strong man... he's a keeper!
Posted 26 September 2008 - 12:59 AM
Posted 26 September 2008 - 01:21 AM
I know things are rough sweetie. But don't let anyone get in the way of your love. You two are going to be so wonderful together!! I wish you two nothing but the best!! Times are rough but I know things will get easier for you!! Congrats!!
Posted 26 September 2008 - 08:28 AM
| Originally Posted by FutureMrsLewis |
It's almost literally "across the pond" lol All I know is Marconi was able to send the first wireless signal from Cornwall (I think) to Signal Hill here in St. John's lol And that was apparently 3500 km's lol As for a flight, you've gotta go through Toronto or Halifax first I think, which is stupid because you have to fly over Newfoundland, then fly back lol My cousin has to do that from Norway every year, fly to Toronto then fly back to St. John's or Gander
Posted 26 September 2008 - 08:35 AM
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