| Originally Posted by amybermuda |
I have about 4 friends who are SUPER excited for Mexico and every time I talk to them all they do is gush over everything. We all need to assign a couple people like that to call when we feel down about the whole DW thing.
Yes! My brother is the one for me. And oddly enough, my friends who aren't going. They're more excited than some of my guests!
| Originally Posted by renee1811 |
I understand what everyone else is going through. I had someone last night joke that they will need to take out a mortgage on their house in order to attend my wedding--I know he was just playing around, but it just makes me feel guilty, like I shouldn't have done a DW. But I keep reminding myself this is what I have wanted my whole life, and the people who come are super-excited about it.
Oh isn't that obnoxious? I've gotten that too. Just little flippant comments people make and don't realize how much they affect us. Like, "Everyone's making sacrifices to come..." I want to say to them that coming to the wedding was a choice
and not an obligation!
Like amyb said, I feel I may be guilty of the same crime. But now that I know and have been through it, I will not make that mistake again. What gets me is the people who are married and have been through it but still make those comments...
| Originally Posted by KittenHeart |
I was like, YOU try getting 40 people to take a vacation together at the same time!!!!
Hahaha, YES! I say that all the time. YOU try planning a vacation for two families!!!! So true and people just have no idea.