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I need to vent!!! I just got a pretty upsetting text from a friend/BM while I was at the gym tonight. She pretty much told me our friendship is over, that she wasn't going to a BM anymore... ya no kidding? I just can't believe she was spineless enough to do this over a text message!

Honestly.. it's a relief! We've grown apart but only because she's jealous that our other friend started dating my FI's best friend... I know she feels left out but she's done some pretty mean spirited things lately and said things that just weren't cool. We always invited her out and she always cancelled... I think we were the ones putting the work into the friendship.

It is a bit of a weight lifted off my shoulders... now I can have the person who truly has been there for me and who I truly want to be my MOH. I just couldn't have my one friend as a MOH before because the other would have been upset and left out... I didn't do what I wanted to make someone else happyhuh.gif WTF? I forgot this was my wedding.

My FI and I agree that I shouldn't respond to the messages. We're both happier that this weight has been lifted and I'm happier and better off without her friendship! C'est la vie!

Sorry to vent like this... you ladies might be the only one's who might at least some what understand... or maybe I'm just crazy.

Now do I ruin my work out tonight with a glass of winehuh.gif
I'm sorry you have to go through this BS... what a coward seriously to text you with such a huge decision and a disrespectful and spiteful one at that. I know Katie had a similar blow up with one of her wedding party but I believe they resolved it.

I am really shocked at how many of my friends I've gotten to see in their true light with my wedding coming about. Sad... it just makes me grateful for my other friends though.

I had a day today as well and am ruining it with beer. Enjoy your wine darling!

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I need to vent!!! I just got a pretty upsetting text from a friend/BM while I was at the gym tonight. She pretty much told me our friendship is over, that she wasn't going to a BM anymore... ya no kidding? I just can't believe she was spineless enough to do this over a text message!

Honestly.. it's a relief! We've grown apart but only because she's jealous that our other friend started dating my FI's best friend... I know she feels left out but she's done some pretty mean spirited things lately and said things that just weren't cool. We always invited her out and she always cancelled... I think we were the ones putting the work into the friendship.

It is a bit of a weight lifted off my shoulders... now I can have the person who truly has been there for me and who I truly want to be my MOH. I just couldn't have my one friend as a MOH before because the other would have been upset and left out... I didn't do what I wanted to make someone else happyhuh.gif WTF? I forgot this was my wedding.

My FI and I agree that I shouldn't respond to the messages. We're both happier that this weight has been lifted and I'm happier and better off without her friendship! C'est la vie!

Sorry to vent like this... you ladies might be the only one's who might at least some what understand... or maybe I'm just crazy.

Now do I ruin my work out tonight with a glass of winehuh.gif
hey Christa...firstly...BIG hug! I know you say you're relieved but it's still not nice.

weird thing is that is pretty much EXACTLY what my MOH did to me...over text and saying we've drifted apart bla bla bla. as well as a whole other bunch of things.

like Amy said, we have now sorted it out, but end result is she's not coming to mexico (said she couldn't afford it and the time away from her boys) and she won't be having a BM role at my AHR either....oh and she's now going to Dominican with her boyfriend (no kids) the week before we fly out to Mexico.

SO...I am totally sympathising with you! though you sound much more positive about it all than I did! but good for you!

it sounds like it was the right thing to happen, and she saved you the job of it. and you've made the effort with her and she hasn't wanted to know - what more could you dohuh.gif

I know it's a bit late now but I hope you had that glass of wine!! (or 2!)

Big hug. xx

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I'm sorry you have to go through this BS... what a coward seriously to text you with such a huge decision and a disrespectful and spiteful one at that. I know Katie had a similar blow up with one of her wedding party but I believe they resolved it.

I am really shocked at how many of my friends I've gotten to see in their true light with my wedding coming about. Sad... it just makes me grateful for my other friends though.

I had a day today as well and am ruining it with beer. Enjoy your wine darling!
oh no sad.gif what happened to you today hun?? hope you're ok.

I think weddings should be free and we should all get free counselling to cope with the stress!!

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panic panic panic....

 

BD shoot is on Wednesday!!!!!!!!!!! keep going through waves of being really excited and then waves of panic...guess which one I'm going through now?! lol

 

and hen night (think you guys call it something else!) is in 3 weeks....can't wait but I can't even remember the last time I got drunk. I'm seriously thinking I need to practice drinking before then or I'm going to be a state before we've even got to the club!! and don't know what to wear!! argh! something else to sort out!! lol

 

HAPPY FRIDAY LADIES!!!!!!!!!

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I need to vent!!! I just got a pretty upsetting text from a friend/BM while I was at the gym tonight. She pretty much told me our friendship is over, that she wasn't going to a BM anymore... ya no kidding? I just can't believe she was spineless enough to do this over a text message!

Honestly.. it's a relief! We've grown apart but only because she's jealous that our other friend started dating my FI's best friend... I know she feels left out but she's done some pretty mean spirited things lately and said things that just weren't cool. We always invited her out and she always cancelled... I think we were the ones putting the work into the friendship.

It is a bit of a weight lifted off my shoulders... now I can have the person who truly has been there for me and who I truly want to be my MOH. I just couldn't have my one friend as a MOH before because the other would have been upset and left out... I didn't do what I wanted to make someone else happyhuh.gif WTF? I forgot this was my wedding.

My FI and I agree that I shouldn't respond to the messages. We're both happier that this weight has been lifted and I'm happier and better off without her friendship! C'est la vie!

Sorry to vent like this... you ladies might be the only one's who might at least some what understand... or maybe I'm just crazy.

Now do I ruin my work out tonight with a glass of winehuh.gif

Wow, Crista, I'm glad it is a relief to you,but I'm sure it came a bit as a big blow. I can not get over the amount of people who have had BM's cancel on them! I just had a best friend bail a week ago, after she had already paid $300 deposit! I don't know why she booked in the first place because I thikn she knew all along she wasn't going.

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Amy M -

 

happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear Amyyyyyyy, happy birthday to youuuuuuu!! hope you have a fab day.

 

oh first birthday as a wifey! :) xx

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oh no sad.gif what happened to you today hun?? hope you're ok.

I think weddings should be free and we should all get free counselling to cope with the stress!!
I have a bridesmaid that was the first to RSVP and book and has been telling me about all the payments she made, only has one left. Booked her flights for super cheap months ago then had to cancel her flights as she booked them for the wrong days... forgot to rebook and now the flights are MORE than double and she's broke. She now has no idea if she's even coming.

Let's just say I have wracked up a whole new list of peoples weddings I will NOT be attending. Her wedding is a destination for me, NY, which is more expensive than Mexico which I was helping her plan. If she bails on me, guess who's not going to hers.

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panic panic panic....

BD shoot is on Wednesday!!!!!!!!!!! keep going through waves of being really excited and then waves of panic...guess which one I'm going through now?! lol

and hen night (think you guys call it something else!) is in 3 weeks....can't wait but I can't even remember the last time I got drunk. I'm seriously thinking I need to practice drinking before then or I'm going to be a state before we've even got to the club!! and don't know what to wear!! argh! something else to sort out!! lol

HAPPY FRIDAY LADIES!!!!!!!!!
Oh you're going to have SO much fun girl, don't even worry! I'd start drinking now if I were you :) You should have a glass of wine for your BD shoot, it got me in such a warm and playful mood it was great.

Bachelorette party! How exciting, mine is apparentally all planned and whatnot. This is the only thing I made a request for, I wanted to go to a club and party in Cancun so I'm pretty sure that's what's happening. I've been searching for a dress, it's hard!!

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Girls, thank you so much for the support and kind words. I'm better off, it sucks, but perhaps it was fate. I'm closing the door and I know a window will open soon enough and I know everything will turn out great. It's crazy the way things happen but things always happen for a reason.

 

Now if only we can get my MOH and my FI's best man to get married....

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Girls, thank you so much for the support and kind words. I'm better off, it sucks, but perhaps it was fate. I'm closing the door and I know a window will open soon enough and I know everything will turn out great. It's crazy the way things happen but things always happen for a reason.

Now if only we can get my MOH and my FI's best man to get married....
Good girl! Rise above and screw 'em, cause they are going to miss a hell of a time in Mexico wink.gif

friday.gif <---- imagine all us BDW girls able to go out for cocktails on Friday, I think we would all be getting hammered too often, LOL :)

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Amy M -

happy birthday to you, happy birthday to you, happy birthday dear Amyyyyyyy, happy birthday to youuuuuuu!! hope you have a fab day.

oh first birthday as a wifey! :) xx

Awh, Katie THANK YOU sweetie!!!!

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