Breathe Sarah Breathe!
Posted 22 April 2008 - 02:55 PM
I say either your FI can talk to her if you want it hashed out ahead of time...or you go with the "it's easier to ask forgivness then permission" route and just do it. She can't very well disown your for having effing candy at YOUR ahr! ;-)
Posted 22 April 2008 - 02:56 PM
plus WE ARE PAYING FOR THE CANDY!!!!
Also I wrote her an email earlier today telling her when it gets over 5000 we will pay for everything else!
I just called my FI and he is speaking with her.
Were those emails rude or was it just me?
Posted 22 April 2008 - 02:57 PM
as the candy bar, i love what Maura wrote and i am glad you sent it. her last response back to you was really authoritative and out of line. you WERE NOT asking her permission.
i am confused though about the $$$ - did they give you $$$ to buy stuff? or are you and Kevin paying for the candy yourselves?
Posted 22 April 2008 - 02:59 PM
Posted 22 April 2008 - 03:03 PM
Anyways, my parents also gave us $$$ to use on the wedding however we see fit. I didn't have to justify one thing to them. We paid for whatever we needed that went over budget. Basically, it ended up being my parents paying for half of everything.
I think your FMIL is overstepping some boundaries. IF they gave you the money, then great. She shouldn't say you can use it how you want, then turn around and make stipulations for how you are spending it. That's something I would clear up really quick.
Posted 22 April 2008 - 03:04 PM
Posted 22 April 2008 - 03:06 PM
| Originally Posted by Kat81 |
She gave you the money for your reception..... she needs to cut the money string
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