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#21 sunnydaes

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    Posted 03 April 2008 - 11:19 AM

    oh no I'm sorry you're going through that. The BD stuff---Its OK, it will still be a surprise. I know your upset i would be too, but he doesn't know about the shoot, right? so that is still a surprise. Maybe you can wear the stuff he saw, tonight, to make up with him :) and then go and get new stuff for the shoot? or even better wear it tonight, and make it memorable so when he sees the pictures, he will remember.
    regarding your mom, i'm so sorry. addiction is a tough one and your right she needs to help herself. Try to stay positive and know that your wedding day is yours and you deserve the best day possible.

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    Posted 03 April 2008 - 11:20 AM

    oh Britney I don't know what to say but keep your chin up and that we are all here for you.
    hopefully this will be the wake up call your mom needs.
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    #23 jamisoncollette

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      Posted 03 April 2008 - 12:02 PM

      Brittney, I'm sorry about how stressful things have been. Substance abuse is so hard, have you looked into NA family support groups? If there is one near you, the members will be able to offer support and advice.

      #24 A10CalGal

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        Posted 03 April 2008 - 12:11 PM

        Holy shit Brittney! Your mom has been arrested for cocaine possesion?? That is insane. Does she have a history with this? Or is this a complete surprise? [nevermind - I just saw your response to a similar question]

        The budoir stuff I'm pretty sure you can get past - I mean it's just the clothes, right?

        I'm sorry you have this situation with your mom when you need her most.

        #25 Amy&Andy

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          Posted 03 April 2008 - 12:40 PM

          Oh goodness....that is not good news about your mom. I would not give any more thought to him seeing your BD stuff. He will still be totally suprised at the finished product....even if he saw a few items, don't sweat it. I'm so sorry about your moms situation, but at this point it is out of your control and you have to trust things will work out. I do hope she can work through her problems and be there for you on your wedding day. We're here for you!

          #26 amy706

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            Posted 03 April 2008 - 12:47 PM

            I am so sorry to hear that. Hang in there! You are in my thoughts and prayers!
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            #27 dragonfly

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              Posted 03 April 2008 - 01:33 PM

              Men can be morons so thats not worth stressing over, I am sure if he saw anything it has just made him more excited for the real thing. As for your mom, I am so sorry, don't stay mad at fh I really think you need him right now to help you get through this. I am sending positive thoughts your way.

              #28 Nrvsbride

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                Posted 03 April 2008 - 02:16 PM

                I am so terribly sorry to hear about your mother. I agree with Kelly I think you shouldn't stay mad at FI b/c your going to need him to be there for you. Hopefully FI didn't see the pics. And even if he did I'm sure he is drooling just thinking about them.

                I really hope everything works out for your mother. Is this her first time being arrested? If it is she may just get community service or have to attend Narcotics Anonymous meetings and may not have to go into rehab.

                I'm sending you good vibes so that everything with your mom gets worked out.

                #29 amyh


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                  Posted 03 April 2008 - 02:21 PM

                  Britney, what a horrible situation to be in. I'm so sorry.

                  #30 DanielleNDerek

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                    Posted 03 April 2008 - 02:29 PM

                    Britney, if your fi did see the Bd things, he will most likely forget a month from now what he saw anyway. i know my fi forgets pretty much everything, so don't worry about that. Maybe he just turned the iron on and realized he wasn't supposed to be in that room so left really quickly without noticing anything.

                    And i'm sorry about your mom's situation. I hope it all works out for you. I'm sending good thoughts your way.
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