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I would love to send a price list....but I might have to wait a little bit to do so....as much as I would love for this all to go away I am still shocked that she would do all this. It's funny because Tim didn't want me to invite her and my other friend Amanda to the wedding in the first place. But I knew they wouldn't come from the beginning. It's just hard when you've been friends with someone for so long for the come to an end over simple courtesy....

 

I was brought up with the ideal that you support your friends no matter what choices they make, you can offer your advice but if they don't want to take it that's their choice. For the past 2 years since their "fight" she and Amanda make smart comments....my friend Tana and I call them "bullets" that you're not sure how to handle. They choose to "review" you and what seriously resembles a "crucifacation" in ways and ever since that one uncomfortable dinner I have not made myself available to their bullshit. I just don't need people like this in my life....as much as they were such a part of my life at one point. I just never thoght that I would be disolving friendships because my relationship....the funny thing is they too have known Tim for as long as I have, since our senior year of high school so 11 years now. So it's not like he's new to the equation.

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Originally Posted by JamaicaBride062108 View Post


Morgan, did you steal "toxic friend" from Smart Steven from Real World Las Vegas? I totally did! LOL!

Oh, no am I quoting real world? Atleast i don't get my advice from trashelle.

I googled it & it's a real thing. Not sure where I heard it. Or maybe steven started it all. He is pretty smart.

6 Types of Toxic Friends and How You Can Deal with Them

I also learned "frienemy" from sex and the city

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Just cut her loose, plan a wedding find out who your friends are.

 

I told one and got well don't expect people to come because its a lot to expect yada yada my reply - don't worry wasn't gonna ask you anyway lol that stopped that one

 

Another can you make it half term so i can bring the kids don't like to take him out of school (he's 6!!) I said no tough don't come sad and i'll miss you but this isn't about you for once

 

Finally one who I stood right beside her when she had fights galore about her wedding, doesn't ring me and isn't interested all she can talk about is the new wii Game!! hello i'm 35!!! lmao

 

Moral of the story people are selfish, let her get on with it and just say look I asked you because we go way back but now bugger off i've had enough. She'll come running tail between her legs, they always do lol

 

Chin up, back straight and give it to her between the eyes lol

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Sorry to hear that you are going through this but she doesn't really sound like much of a friend. Enjoy your wedding planning and your wedding day and don't let her get to you!

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Are you kidding...what a brat!! Do you have a lot of the same friends? That is really ridiculous. I would just sort of steer clear of her - obviously this isn't the right thing to do and I'm sure she knows it. At least you've had your plans set for a while - try not to worry & stress out!!

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I am confused as to why this girl is still your friend? If I had a friend who talked trash about my husband, then this person is no longer going to be my friend, you don't have to like my husband but keep it to yourself, or expect our friendship to be over.

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Well.........I decided to call her. I just hung up the phone with her, I was seething mad while the phone was ringing because it seemed like she wasn't going to pick up! She answered and seemed happy to hear from me? Ok, so I started asking the common wedding questions.......Then I asked, "did you guys pick a date yet?" (because keep in mind she was all along telling me that she wanted October) I was clenching my fists, my knuckles were turning white.........."Yeah we did......we decided to wait.....it'll be June 27th" I had to ask again because I was shocked that the answer didn't start with October. Apparently Patrick her fiance said that it would be too much of a strain financially to have a wedding so quickly..................HA!

 

The sucky thing is that if it were up to her she would have an October wedding. All the same the friendship is definitley strained.....we'll see how things go from here.

 

I just wanted to update you ladies....

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Well, that's a huge relief. And I am gla dyou called her. Having the phone call over with is much better then seething over how it might go.

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Your friend made me mad & I just read your post. Seriously, Im sorry she is acting this way. Its unfortunate but thats how some people are or what they turn into...its funny that when something fabulous happens to you (like your proposal) you truly see who your friends are...some people turn very jealous and show their true colors. It happened with me and a close friend after I got engaged. Regardless, focus on you and everything you and your FI are enjoying regarding the wedding. I would put her comments and little remarks on hold right now in your own mind. Best of luck!

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