GRRRR... EX GF's. and GF's

[1elephant]

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Originally Posted by jean-marcus hmmm how about she comes to seattle i just like visiting new york. wouldnt wanna live there.. is it too early to propose to her? should i get the ring now or wait till tomorrow? its fate. i know it heheh

she lives in nj...but has no attachment to it...she was recently looking into moving to hawaii, but that was short lived.
she says yes to your proposal. you'll be married within the year

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by lauren c. she lives in nj...but has no attachment to it...she was recently looking into moving to hawaii, but that was short lived. she says yes to your proposal. you'll be married within the year

within the year oh noo. i need to get rolling faster then that. i am like the typical woman and i have a set timeline for my life...

1. born
2. graduate high school by 18
3. college by 22 (the timeline here was more relaxed)
4. married by 30 years 9 months and 17 days...

so as you can see we need to be married by april 22nd...

hopefully she is okay with that

[1elephant]

i'll pm you her myspace

[Nic Dragomire]

1. born

2. graduate high school by 18

3. college by 22 (the timeline here was more relaxed)

4. married by 30 years 9 months and 17 days...

 

thats my wifey!!!

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by Nic Dragomire thats my wifey!!!

what?? you're married you are cheating on me?? how dare you nic.. i thougth we had something

[MikkiStreak]

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Originally Posted by jean-marcus you have no ideaaaaa the issues us guys have to sort through.... guys are just as messed up in the head but its so easy to read through them... i mean if you see a guy who's all suave and saying all the right things and buying you drink after drink in a bar OBVIOUSLY he just wants sex... not tough to figure that out. and if he drives a porche but still lives at home "because he is helping take care of his mother" then obviously he is a looser who wastes all his money on a flashy car... but women are so sneaky and hide all their flaws and insane wacky issues its not fair... why cant women be easier to read.

Women aren't hard to read... you just forget about "man eyes"... you know, that thing you guys do where you don't see the ketchup bottle in the fridge if it's sitting behind the ranch dressing.


Frank's best friend and I have had this discussion before. He's in a similar boat---- amazing guy who would be one of those guys every girl admits would be the perfect kind of guy. But it doesn't work out for him.

What I've noticed in most people (men and women both)--- is that they try to put people into a specific role in their lives instead of letting them take the role they were meant to take. They'll see someone in public that they are attracted to and the first thought is to talk to them and see if it leads to getting a date, which could lead to dating and relationships. It's a lot of pressure on people, because it's always about seeing how they fit into this mold of what the person is looking for in a partner. I think when we set aside that "dating" mentality and approach people the same way we do our casual friends- that it really relaxes the situation enough for it to go as fas as it was meant to go.

enough psych-babble.... sorry.

[jean-marcus]

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Originally Posted by MikkiStreak Women aren't hard to read... you just forget about "man eyes"... you know, that thing you guys do where you don't see the ketchup bottle in the fridge if it's sitting behind the ranch dressing. Frank's best friend and I have had this discussion before. He's in a similar boat---- amazing guy who would be one of those guys every girl admits would be the perfect kind of guy. But it doesn't work out for him. What I've noticed in most people (men and women both)--- is that they try to put people into a specific role in their lives instead of letting them take the role they were meant to take. They'll see someone in public that they are attracted to and the first thought is to talk to them and see if it leads to getting a date, which could lead to dating and relationships. It's a lot of pressure on people, because it's always about seeing how they fit into this mold of what the person is looking for in a partner. I think when we set aside that "dating" mentality and approach people the same way we do our casual friends- that it really relaxes the situation enough for it to go as fas as it was meant to go. enough psych-babble.... sorry.

very well put... i agree with you... that is why i dont pick up girls in bars or antyhing of that nature. simply because its all a front and no one is ever themselves... i much more need to know that i can click and mesh with them first and have something beyond just the looks... granted physical attraction is always important but if i cant carry on a conversation with these women (like two of the last girls) then whats the point..

oh well... i have faith that one day ill find mine