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#1 LadyCheese

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    Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:02 PM

    Hi ladies...I'm sending out my STDs soon and would like to include a prelimanary RSVP just to get an idea of who's really planning on coming or not. Question is, how long do I give them to RSVP??

    #2 lucy106

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      Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:07 PM

      What are your intentions with the preliminary RSVP? Just curiosity? or does your resort need them? I am asking just because some people may not know for a few months because of finances,schedules, and all. Maybe you could just be a little less formal about it and just ask people a few weeks after you send out the STDs. I guess my concern is if you put an RSVP date on the STDs some may think that is their only chance to go. JMO.

      #3 LadyCheese

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        Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:24 PM

        Well I got this idea from another DW member....this is what I thought I could write:

        At this early stage we would love to hear who might be able to join us for our wedding at Melia Caribe in Punta Cana, November 15, 2008. Your response is not set in stone, but will help us along with our planning.

        #4 LadyCheese

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          Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:27 PM

          Oh and under that I included some options they can check off like "yes I'll definitely be there" or "unsure at this moment", etc...

          #5 LadyCheese

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            Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:29 PM

            Oh and under that I included some options they can check off like "yes I'll definitely be there" or "unsure at this moment", etc...

            #6 Celina

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              Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:36 PM

              I know exactly what you mean. We are in the same predicament. (Looks like you are getting married a week after me) YAY for November brides!

              I am going to send out a STD postcard next month and then send out another one in July with the preliminary RSVP.
              "Love is not who you live with...it's who you can't live without"

              #7 LadyCheese

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                Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:39 PM

                YAY!!! :)

                Okay, thats a good idea also to send something else out a little later.

                #8 lucy106

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                  Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:57 PM

                  I like your wording! That sounds good!

                  #9 LadyCheese

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                    Posted 29 January 2008 - 03:59 PM

                    Thx Lucy 106 :)
                    Now I have to decide if I want to send them out as part of my STD or later on as a postcard or something. Dilemnas! lol

                    #10 ErinB

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                      Posted 29 January 2008 - 04:07 PM

                      http://bestdestinati...om/forum/t13641
                      Check out Courtney's wording on her STD's. I loved it!

                      I had my guests RSVP through my website, so they could see all of the travel info, cost, etc. They had a choice of yes, no, and send more info/brochures.




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