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Any ideas on where to start with vows???

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    Posted 18 January 2008 - 01:03 PM

    We would really like to write our own vows and have an idea but not sure where to start We are having a legal ceramony and I have heard for it to be leagal there has to be some cirtain wording, does anyone know anything about this? Thanx girls

    #2 TammyB

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      Posted 18 January 2008 - 03:45 PM

      We told our WC that we had written our own vows. We had a legal wedding as well and they are very strick in Mexico, and it needs to be done a certain way, but if you tell your WC he/she will be able to work it into your ceremony, it worked out perfectly..

      #3 -Kate-

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        Posted 20 January 2008 - 02:09 AM

        We had a legal wedding in MX and wrote our own vows. Your WC should be able to give you a copy of what the legal wording has to be. You can add anything you want to the ceremony - you just can't take away or change anything that is there. We added two readings, put in our own vows, and added a hand ceremony.

        For the vows in particular we actually wrote them on a plane. We just started talking about what was important to us and what we each have to make an effort to do. For example, we have to both work to talk about what is bothering us right when it starts (we both like to fester for a while which makes it worse). So, we put something in there about sharing issues. We also wrote some funny ones. We each came up with about 10 funny vows, then each picked 2 of those but left the choice a surprise for the ceremony.

        #4 rodent


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          Posted 20 January 2008 - 02:23 AM

          There is a copy on the forum of what the legal wording is. I'll see if I can find it.

          #5 JODEY

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            Posted 21 January 2008 - 07:45 AM

            Thank you soooo much all of you!, you have all given me some great ideas and tips, you've deffinitly put my mind at rest (exuse the spelling LOL)

            #6 Agape Gems

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              Posted 02 April 2008 - 09:08 PM

              Some things I came across in researching how to start writing my vows:

              With Kindness, Unselfishness, and Trust
              I (name) affirm my love to you, (name) as I invite you to share my life. You are the most beautiful, smart, and generous person I have ever known, and I promise always to respect you and love you. With kindness, unselfishness and trust, I will work by your side to create a wonderful life together. I take you (name) to be my lawful (wife/husband), to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health for as long as we both shall live.

              The Best Person I Can Be
              (Name), from the moment I first saw you, I knew you were the one with whom I wanted to share my life. Your beauty, heart, and mind inspire me to be the best person I can be. I promise to love you for eternity, respecting you, honoring you, being faithful to you, and sharing my life with you. This is my solemn vow.

              To Grow Along with You
              Name, today I become your (husband/wife) and you become my (wife/husband). I will strive to give you the best of myself, while accepting you the way you are. I promise to respect you as a whole person with your own interests, desires, and needs, and to realize that those are sometimes different, but no less important than my own. I promise to keep myself open to you, to let you in to my innermost fears and feelings, secrets and dreams. I promise to grow along with you, to be willing to face change as we both change, keeping our relationship alive and exciting. And finally, I promise to love you in good times and in bad, with all I have to give and all that I am, in the only way I know how -- completely and forever.

              Love You Without Reservation
              (Name), today I take you for my (wife/husband). I promise to love you without reservation, comfort you in times of distress, encourage you to achieve all of your goals, laugh with you and cry with you, grow with you in mind, and spirit, always be open and honest with you, and cherish you for as long as we both shall live.

              Best Friend
              (Name), today I take you to be my (husband/wife). Together we will create a home, becoming a part of one another. I vow to help create a life that we can cherish, inspiring your love for me and mine for you. I vow to be honest, caring and truthful, to love you as you are and not as I want you to be, and to grow old by your side as your love and best friend.
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              #7 Denise40

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                Posted 02 April 2008 - 10:20 PM

                Do you all say your vows alone or do you repeat them after the person doing the ceremony?

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