Billandstina

Ugh one more thing to think about!! I'm feeling completely overwhelmed! Lol

I would LOVE to template for your welcome packet if at all possible? [email protected] Everything looks so great! I'm trying to do a who's who Facebook thing and I love the layout you have in your book! Thanks so much!!

Very good to know...thank you

Well that's what I was thinking of doing although sure your camera is far better than the one I was going to buy! I just don't know who I would ask to hold still enough to video tape it and I'm afraid the sound won't be heard with the wind and ocean We're bringing our photographers with us and I don't want to pay an outside vendor fee and honestly can't afford the insane prices that they charge! Ugh...Catch 22 but I have a feeling I will regret not having a video of our ceremony which is why I was willing to consider the $500 package

Hi y'all...I asked on the Gran Porto Thread but haven't had any luck so I figure I'll ask here because I'm sure it's the same videographer for the sister resorts. Elsa isn't answering any of my questions regarding the video quality. Does anyone have an example of the video that is offered? I would do the "cheapest" $500 package but would love to see the quality of one of their end products. I'm getting so close to the wedding date and I'm irritated that once again I'm left without answers from the WC...although I guess I shouldn't be shocked at this point! Lol

Hi Girls! I've asked Elsa about 3 times for examples of their videographer's work and have had no luck! Our final choices were due on Monday and I've sent them all in and haven't heard anything from her since...so do any of you have any examples of their "cheapest" $500 video option? Also did any of you do the Webcam?

Stina- The server isn't working correctly so I can't quote your question, but yes- we are doing the whole legal she-bang with the blood work and everything. Our intent was to just have the one ceremony on the beach and have it be legal, but bc it is legal, there is this awful official script they have to use and I was originally told it could be altered a little to my liking, but that wasn't true. The compromise we came up with is that we will have the legal one with the judge and my witnesses in the wedding office in the morning and then the "symbolic" but "real" ceremony in my mind, in front of the guests on the beach that evening with a minister.

Ok girls, finalizing the ceremony script and making the programs has been on my list for FOREVER!!! I am doing this week. PERIOD! I can't stand it anymore and I need to knock these things off my list.  We are having a legal ceremony the morning of the wedding in private bc I REALLY want the wedding date to be the date we chose- it's our anniversary! Then, the actual ceremony will be "symbolic." The reasoning is that I could not alter the legal script at ALL and it was AWFUL!! Here is the script I came up with (with a lot of help from the internet and BDW!!) Please let me know what ya'll think!! Symbolic Ceremony BRIDE: Megan King GROOM: Daniel Wilson WEDDING DATE: Thursday, June 28, 2013 WEDDING TIME: 5:30 WEDDING LOCATION: Beach Gazebo Music playing Guests are taking seats Processional: (different music) Seating of the Parents: Gary and Kathi walk down aisle As Dan walks my mom down the aisle, the BM and Minister take their places entering from the right and then Dan takes his place on right next to Mabry Bridal Processional: (diff music) Reyna walks down aisle Laura walks down aisle Caley walks down aisle Sylas walks down aisle Wedding march begins- dad walks me down aisle- mom stands to signal all guests to stand Giving Away of Bride: Minster- "Dually blessed is the couple which comes to the marriage altar with the approval and blessings of their families and friends. Who has the honor of presenting this woman to be married to this man?" Dad- "Her mother and I do.†Kiss dad, he hands me off to Dan. Dan and Dad shake hands/hug and Dad sits down. Opening Remarks and Welcome: Minister- “We are gathered here in the sight of God and these witnesses to unite Megan and Daniel in Holy Matrimony. On behalf of Megan and Daniel, it is my honor to welcome you and thank you all for traveling such a great distance to be here today as it is a testament to the amazing amount of love and support they have in each of you. Many of you have given them much happiness, unconditional love, encouragement, and guidance through the various stages of their lives. They would like to sincerely thank you all for being here to celebrate their big day. A special and respectful acknowledgement must also be made to those friends and family members who were unable to attend, or have passed on, but whose spirit remains alive and strong in all our hearts.†                                                                                                                                                                                      Opening Prayer: Minister- "Let us pray- Our Father, love has been your richest and greatest gift to the world. Love between a man and woman which matures into marriage is one of your most beautiful types of loves. Today we celebrate that love. May your blessing be on this wedding service, protect, guide, and bless Megan and Daniel in their marriage. Surround them and us with your love now and always. In your son's name, Amen." "You may be seated." The Charge to Bride and Groom and Pledge: Minister- “Megan and Daniel- This marriage ceremony does not mark the beginning of a new relationship. Rather, it is an acknowledgement and celebration of a relationship that has been thriving since you met. Marriage is the mutual commitment of two people sincerely in love who share the same dreams about life.†“More than that, it is the intimate sharing of two lives. It is a sharing that does not diminish, but enhances the individuality of each partner. The institution of marriage is not to be entered into lightly as it symbolizes commitment on every level. Together you will continue to meet the challenges and obstacles of life head on with honesty, integrity, and loyalty.†“This beautiful setting should remind us that, like the ocean, human life is an ebb and flow- spirit and emotions move in cycles. To be in a relationship does not guarantee an eternal summer. To make a sincere and honest commitment does not promise an end to all struggles. What a good relationship does offer, much like this ocean, is the opportunity for renewal. A successful relationship recognizes that after every fall and winter, spring and summer will come again. A flourishing relationship takes more than just love. It takes trust, to know in your hearts that you want only the best for each other. It takes dedication, to stay open to one another, to learn and grow, even when it is difficult to do so... and it takes faith, to go forward together without knowing what the future holds for you both.†                                                                                          Reading:             Minister- "I now invite Kathi, Mother of the Groom, to read a passage from the book of Corinthians. Kathi- “If I speak with human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong, a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and, with full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have faith great enough to move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.†“Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power to endure.†“Love never fails. Prophecies will cease, tongues will be silent, knowledge will pass away…There are in the end three things that last: faith, hope, and love, and the greatest of these is love. 1 Corinthians 13:1-8; 13†Vows: Minister- “Thank you, Kathi.†“Megan and Daniel, as you prepare to take these vows, give careful thought and prayer, for as you make them you are making an exclusive commitment one to the other for as long as you both shall live. Your love for each other should never be diminished by difficult circumstances, and it is to endure until death parts you.†“As God's children, your marriage is strengthened by your obedience to your Heavenly Father and His Word. As you let God be in control of your marriage, He will cause your home to be a place of joy and a testimony to the world." “Daniel do you accept Megan as your beloved and wedded wife, to love and honor her, stand by her side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Dan responds: “I do†“Dan, please repeat after me:  Megan, from this day forward I promise you these things…. I will laugh with you in times of joy… And comfort you in times of sorrow… I will share in your dreams… And always support and encourage you… I promise to love you in good times and bad… I will help you when you need it… And step aside when you don’t… You are my best friend… And I will love and respect you always!†Minister- “Megan, do you accept Daniel as your beloved and wedded husband, to love and honor him, stand by his side, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health for as long as you both shall live?†Megan responds: “I doâ€Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â                  “Megan please repeat after me: Dan, I do not need you, I choose you! I choose you today in witness of all the people who love us, I choose you tomorrow in the privacy of our hearts. I choose you in strength and weakness. I choose you in health and dis-ease. I choose you in joy and in sorrow. I will choose you, over all others… Every day-for all the days of my life.â€Â Â Â Â Â  Minister- “Will everyone please rise?†“Will you, the cherished family and friends of Megan and Daniel, witnessing these vows, do all in your power to support them in their marriage, love them, and encourage their love for one another from now until forever? Guests- “We will†Hand Ceremony: Minister- “Thank you. Please remain standing.†“Megan and Daniel, as you stand beside the ocean, may your love always be as constant as the tide; waves flowing endlessly from the depths of the sea. Just as water is the eternal force of life, so is love. Love is the force that allows us to face fear and uncertainty with courage.†               “You have just sealed your relationship with the exchanging of vows to each other as well as a blessing from your family and friends. Although you will be sharing one life, never forget that you are two separate people. Cherish and affirm your differences. Love each other. Keep your commitment primary. Together you will laugh and cry, be happy and angry, share and grow- sometimes together, sometimes separately.†“Before the two of you met, your lives were on separate roads ... each going in different directions and seemingly leading to different destinations. But somewhere along the way (through some twist of fate) you did meet, and you fell in love. Today, you find yourselves standing here together at the threshold of a new path, and have promised to forever join your once separate journeys into one.†“To symbolize this union and the importance of the individuals within the marriage, each of your family members and friends here today has been given a small polished stone that represents their unique individuality, the roles they played in your individual paths, and their presence at your wedding today.†“You also each have a stone of your own that symbolizes your previous separate lives, separate sets of friends, separate families and the different life’s journeys that you once traveled. I ask that everyone please hold the stone that you have been given. Fill your stone with hope, love, positivity, a prayer, or a blessing for happiness and good will for Megan and Daniel for the future of their marriage.†“Now, please come forward and add your stone to this vase, which Megan and Daniel will display in their home to be reminded daily of the love and support they find in each of you as well as your presence on this special day.†(Guests come up and place stones in vase- possibly play a song.) Minister- “The union of these stones has now symbolically joined your once separate lives. Through you, just as the stones have been combined, so now are your friends and family joined. Your once solitary life’s paths are also now one, and all that was once separate is now shared. In this sharing you both will find new strength and joy as together you forge a new life path.†“Stones stand the test of time. Over time they can even become stronger and more beautiful. Let these stones be a reminder and a memorial of the love, blessings and support that your family members and friends have provided you here today.  And what God has joined together, let no man separate.†Exchanging of the Rings: Minister- “The vows which have been exchanged are but words that are fleeting and the sound of them is soon gone. The wedding ring is a symbol of eternity and the promises which have been made. It is an outward sign of an inward and spiritual bond which unites two hearts in endless love.†“Daniel and Megan please join hands.†“These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever. These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future. These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other. These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind. These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy. These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it. And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.†“Our prayer for you today is that both of you will use these hands to build a marriage where all your dreams come true.†  “And now as a token of your love and of your deep desire to be forever united in heart and soul I ask you, Dan, to repeat after me:†“Megan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have- I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed.†Minister- “Now, Megan, please repeat after me†“Dan, I give you this ring as a symbol of our vows; and with all that I am, and all that I have, I honor you. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit, with this ring, I thee wed." Pronouncement: Minister- “I now pronounce you husband and wife!†Kiss: Minister- "Dan, you may now kiss your Bride!" Presentation of Bride and Groom: Minister- "It is now my privilege to present to you for the first time, Drs. Daniel and Megan Wilson!" Recessional: (music plays) Gary and Kathi exit Mom and Dad exit Wedding party exits: Caley and Sylas Laura, Reyna and Mabry Bride and Groom Group Picture and Toast

I feel you on this...we were guaranteed a room upgrade, yet for the package we wanted we had to get the highest suite they offer...sooooo there's no room for us to upgrade to! I asked if my parents could have our upgrade and they said no. Ummmm we're bringing in 60 people to your resort for A WEEK and that's not even counting the money we're spending for the wedding! Grrrrrr

I feel you on this...we were guaranteed a room upgrade, yet for the package we wanted we had to get the highest suite they offer...sooooo there's no room for us to upgrade to! I asked if my parents could have our upgrade and they said no. Ummmm we're bringing in 60 people to your resort for A WEEK and that's not even counting the money we're spending for the wedding! Grrrrrr

Has any one found a good quality Chapstick for not a lot of money?

Has any one found a good quality Chapstick for not a lot of money?

I swear they keep messing with me too on this exact thing! And they're charging me $20/person over 20 guests for the ceremony which I THOUGHT covered the champagne toast so I didn't say anything about that being outrageous...then I thought the cocktail hour was $10 and was open bar plus 3 cold appetizers. I've now been told that only covers champagne and 3 appetizers and if I want open bar it's $15 per person...UMMMMM...there are so many things greedy and wrong with this!! What the heck is the $20/person "ceremony" fee for?? Unfolding a chair?? And why at an all inclusive should we be paying extra for open bar instead of just champagne! SOOOO irritated and my final checklist is due in about 24 hours.

I swear they keep messing with me too on this exact thing! And they're charging me $20/person over 20 guests for the ceremony which I THOUGHT covered the champagne toast so I didn't say anything about that being outrageous...then I thought the cocktail hour was $10 and was open bar plus 3 cold appetizers. I've now been told that only covers champagne and 3 appetizers and if I want open bar it's $15 per person...UMMMMM...there are so many things greedy and wrong with this!! What the heck is the $20/person "ceremony" fee for?? Unfolding a chair?? And why at an all inclusive should we be paying extra for open bar instead of just champagne! SOOOO irritated and my final checklist is due in about 24 hours.

I feel like all the actual wedding things (as far as decor, etc) are really coming together and there only a few things left to buy (thank GOD!!) but I just started to think more about the Welcome Dinner we are having as well as the Rehearsal Dinner and I'm a little overwhelmed... I feel like I want there to be a few simple decor items..... Ideas?!? I'm thinking maybe just flower petals, candles of some kind, and maybe pictures of my FI and I through the years or something..? Hmmmm... Anyone else bringing small decorations for these events or similar events?

I feel like all the actual wedding things (as far as decor, etc) are really coming together and there only a few things left to buy (thank GOD!!) but I just started to think more about the Welcome Dinner we are having as well as the Rehearsal Dinner and I'm a little overwhelmed... I feel like I want there to be a few simple decor items..... Ideas?!? I'm thinking maybe just flower petals, candles of some kind, and maybe pictures of my FI and I through the years or something..? Hmmmm... Anyone else bringing small decorations for these events or similar events?

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Thanks for the compliments on the activity books!  Bought from this seller http://www.etsy.com/shop/SugarPieStudio for $5.50...a steal.  And the crayons were from here http://www.etsy.com/shop/cioprints

Which etsy seller was this? So cute!

Yes I did that but no matter what I do the bottom part won't print...lol...I guess if worse comes to worse ill just print it on an entire sheet of adhesive and cut out each label.

Did anybody have issues with their printers cutting off the bottom portion of the template/labels? I changed the margins to .5 etc but its still doing it...frustrating!!

Is anyone doing a boudoir shoot? Mines scheduled for 4/13. I am getting so nervous! I'm going to meet the photographers for a consultation on Tuesday so hopefully that will put me more at ease! I've talked to some girls that have already done it and they say it was amazing and they are so happy they did it! I just just so not "me"! I don't know how to 'look' sexy! Haha! I hope they can help me out with that... I'm sure a few glasses of wine will help as well! On another note, my bridal shower is this Saturday! Exciting! 71 day countdown!! :-)

Hi LADIES, I'm torn between Dj Mannia or Dj Doremixx. Any suggestions? I've heard one of the two had provided cold fireworks, face masks, white balloons etc. I don't remember where I saw this so I don't remember which dj it was that was mentioned. I'm sure both of them are great DJ's and MC's, so at this point, whoever provides the fun service or fireworks and such, gets my vote. 

Haha! Yay I'm doing my own template just on a powerpoint. I can show you it after I put a couple more together . I think then I'm going to just print some stuff off at Kinkos and bound. LADIES: Vistaprint is having a deal on LivingSocial ($16 for $60 worth of stuff or $19 for $90 worth of stationary stuff). This sold out like a hotcake on Groupon when they had it, so make sure you snap it up today if you want it

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This is EXACTLY what I was looking for! Thank you It looks like I've got almost everything done for shopping...which was a ton of fun, so I'm sad to see that one end, but oh well. My wallet will NOT be sad, lol. I'm putting the OOT bags together now that I have all the stuff. I'm also working on a new project: a "Who's Who of This Wedding Crew" yearbook for all 90 guests. It's fun! I'm putting in a couple pictures of each guest, if it's a couple, I'm also including their wedding photo and date of their wedding. Then a fun fact about each person. My fiance is a bit of a comedian, so he's having fun with the facts about his friends. Also, for all of the mid-June brides, my dad just informed me that the day after our wedding is Father's Day (our wedding is June 15th)!!! How special is that?!!!! So now I'm trying to think of ways to incorporate a Father's day gift or aknowledgement for all the dads that will be there. I'm floating b/c it's officially almost two months away now that we've hit April. WOO-HOO

Woohoo!! That's exciting! Thank you!