Ladies I'm quite sad and hurt today...thus I need to vent a bit and figured you'd be likely to understand. 8 months into the planning process one of my supposed good friends and bridesmaid told me she's not going to be able to make the wedding; she made the choice to pick to go on a medical trip to South America over my wedding. Being in the medical profession we are forced to make sacrifices in our personal lives to further our careers, and sometimes vice versa as well, but I thought that my wedding would have been higher priority. To date I don't think she had even booked her trip or ordered her BM dress, so it makes me wonder if she ever had intention to go. Throughout this process, I've learned some of my "friends" are not truly friends, but I didn't expect this from one of my supposed closest ones. Given the general lack of excitement for this wedding abroad from others in conjunction with wide spread criticism, I am feeling disheartened and at the moment would rather elope....Sorry for the long rant, and thanks for listening!