Jenn, I have very similar anxieties. I have decidedd to save like 10000 bucks and see where that gets me...in the mean time I'm just making decisions as much as possible and buying things along with the way (got my dress, tiara, party dress)...have made decisions on (ring pillow, petals to throw, guest book, pen)... etc...and I"m buying them as I have extra money every month.