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Thats really good michelle are you excersising too? xx

How comes you havent got it yet? x

omg i know this time in 6 months i'll be in Mexico!!!!!! ahhh wish it was sooner!! lol best crack on with all my DIY projects i started 6 months ago lol x

Thanks for your replies girls ! I dont know if i've left it too long without a reply to him now She just said sorry for him getting me involved in their mess. She just said to ask him how he thinks hes gonna pay for it (she was going to pay for him & had already paid the deposit) I really think its way to early for him to be asking that kind of thing since they only just split and I cant help but wonder if hes trying to make some kind of point/see where he stands? They havent been civil recently but im sure their adult enough to be eventually, its just its a very small wedding party (18 inc us) and as we're from the UK it'll be a week long trip! I think you are all right though, I need to say he is still invited but make sure he knows that him and G need to be civil and I dont want any problems! I know she wont do anything but him im not sure! Thanks again xx

Fab songs all!! Will subscribe to this thread! x

Ok girls need some advice please!! 7 years ago myself and FI met our friends G and L (who were not together) and then around 6 years ago they became a couple. We (me and FI) have spent loads of time with them since they got together including meals out/vacations/xmas/new year etc and I have over the years become best friends with G. As soon as we planned our wedding they were first on the invite list and I asked G to be my bridesmaid along with my cousin. But the last 6 months or so L has been treating G really bad and I have on numerous occasions had to bite my tounge to stop myself from saying something to him for his behaviour. So, last weekend they came to blows over him being bad to her AGAIN and split up... tonight out of the blue I get a text message from him asking "Am I still invited to the wedding?" ACK! What on earth do I reply? Of course my priority is that my best friend is comfortable and happy, so surely the answer is no.. but its such early days even though shes adamant that they wont get back together what if they do thats going to hurt his feelings for no reason. My FI says I cant say no as its awful being invited then not being invited and also he's our friend too (albiet not as good friend) Plus he has no job currently and hasnt for the last year and half so almost definately couldnt afford to come? or do I take the easy option and just ignore the text ?? Please help what would you reply/do? Thanks xx

char79uk - omg poor you, you and your family are really going through it at the moment! thinking of you all xxx I went to the wedding show in London today, it was really good october one is way better than the one in April time. I got my tiara yipeeee! I've been so picky really didnt want a "crown" style one just a sparkly headband really and I tried loadsssss on and found the one I love! 10% show discount too some lovely invites and bits there too, good if you havent got your rings as loads of ring people. Also tons of wedding dresses (if you want to Q for hours to try them on), they are also discounted. x

herbie76 - How is your dad now? xx I used to think it was crazy when I heard brides were having nightmares about their wedding - last night I had nightmares ALL night!!!! One was that i've left my wedding dress at home forgotten to pack it and I was desperately trying to arrange someone to ship it with no avail the second one was that for some reason i'd had no time to get ready so I just went down the asile and when I got back to my room I looked in the mirror and had no makeup on my hair was a mess, one of my bridesmaids wasnt wearing her dress cuz she couldnt find it and basically EVERYTHING had gone wrong!!! It was awful woke up really sad this morning because of it! grrrr

Ooh one question lilly129 were your centre pieces extra? did you bring the glass vase holding them with you? thanks

lilly129 - Amazing review!! Thanks so much really wanted a review from someone who had, had a legal ceremony so your review helps loads! Your dress is stunning and omg how gorgeous were your flowers!! Thanks for posting! x

might sound a strange question but how long ago did they tell you the pool deck was full? Ana told me it was full, then gabby told me I could have it?!!?!?! Maybe worth double checking x

Hi Dea, Not sure excatly how booked up it is, but I know that about 3-4 months ago April was almost full (I was told by another bride) From what I know originally there was just one wedding coordinator - Ana then she got an assistant and very recently Ana left and now a seemingly more organised coordinator has started she has two assistants. The new WC has made quite a few changes to how the first one was working including cutting weddings down to 2 a day instead of 3 which may make avaliability more difficult.

p.s 47 booked!!! wow!!!! I didnt even invite 20 let alone 47 booked!!! That'll be amazing !!

I have 16 people going - everyone I would have really wanted to be there will be there so happy! I want to do invites still as its a chance to give people a little more info & luggage tags! Oh you did!! Fab!! Hope you managed to negociate what you needed. Im not sure exactly what Ivan's turnaround is for pics, but it would be fab if they were ready! lol Looking forward to seeing yours too in that case - are you doing TTD? x

Me and the FI are planning to buy each others wedding perfume/aftershave... We've said it has to be one we wouldnt normally buy/wear, then the scent will always remind us of our wedding day

I will most likely send mine out in January as all of my guests have booked already from the save the dates x

As expected - No email with our assigned coordinators! ...sigh

Fantastic planning thread! Who was your final dress by? Its stunning x

Welcome! xx

ermmmm mine was $18 i think...! Just a word of warning, try and find a box or something to store it in as the metal post bends easily! x Â

Haha I tried that too - it came JUST intime for my "fake" wedding!! They arent the quickest....  Woop woop well done 2lbs is good!!! xx  P.s glad you had confirmation from resort xx Â

Anyone had any email with the WC assignment? I did think she was being optimistic with a week!

GOOD! If i can do it you all can!! Excatly think of the bikini bod!! arghhhh!!! Â Sounds like you are deffo on the right track I think it'll be falling off you in no time! x Â

That is absolutely awful!!! I thought it was bad enough with my FI's brother said he couldnt afford to come despite earning a hell of alot, he did eventually come to his senses!! But for parents to say that... disgraceful. Hopefully they will change thier mind too because they'll end up regretting it. Hope your FI is ok must be a kick in the teeth Â

Nicy - So so so so so so sorry to hear this how awful for you and your family. Will be thinking of you all xx  roo - sorry to hear about your loss too xx  Had an email from bluebay/TC today saying they were changing our flight times.. epppp!! luckily its only by an hour or so both ways. Our TA said they are making alot of changes at the moment on TC x