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Quote: Originally Posted by svetayasofiya That is not selfish of you at all. My friend used to be a hairdresser (she currently cuts my hair) and was going to do my hair the day of the wedding. But we both decided against it. I was too nervous that I'd be a horrible customer and she was too nervous to wreck my hair the day of my wedding... so for the sake of friendship it just makes more sense to let the resort do it. The price sucks but in the end, I want the least to worry about that day. I am having my makeup done too. Okay... she seems really excited to do it but my BM's and mom's will get their hair done too so I think I will just tell her that we are all going to use the salon at my resort. She does want to do a trial run but I just don't want to put her under so much pressure since she will have her little daughter with her and I might be bridezilla. Ha-ha! So, this is what I'll do, I'll have her do the trial run. If everything comes out okay, I will still book through the salon and if for some reason something happens and the salon can't do my hair then I have her for a back up. Is that fair or do you think I'll hurt her feelings? ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by claire.cw.watson Hey everyone Hope all the planning is going well. Im really not much further forward, hence the lack of posts. Getting married Feb 18th, 22 people are booked, still waiting for about 20 more. Get married at 4.30pm, then having Moments that Matter photographers to do our pictures. Was thinking about just sending people to the P.C.O.B whilst getting our pics done. Then looking to have the buffet there. I was really stuck about what to do for entertainment. Was thinking about hiring a band or something just for an hour or so during the photo time. Not too sure what to do about music during the meal. What do you think? Was just going to have my i-pod and hire the speakers and mic for speeches. Then once we have all had food, and some drinks take the party to the hotel disco. Not doing a first dance, or cutting of the cake. So don't think we really need a DJ to sort music and introductions. Do you think that sounds ok? Your wedding day sounds VERY similiar to mine. - Getting married Feb. 10th @ CAT - 27 people booked (waiting for 10 more) - Haven't hired a photographer yet (yikes!) - Wedding at 3:00 pm on the beach - Thinking of doing a "cocktail hour" (downside: have to pay for drinks) or sending our guests to the bar (upside: "free" drinks) - Also thinking of hiring a Mariachi Band for 2 hours during "cocktail hour" but they are $300/hour! - No reception planned for Mexico but will do a AHR when we return to Michigan - Since a cake is included in our package we might just do that at our "cocktail hour" but we won't be doing first dances since we'll save that for the AHR Good Luck with the rest of your planning! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by vdaybride I am a true insomniac these days. I stay on this forum and on various websites trying to make sure I am not forgetting anything and it is exhausting but fun at the same time. I don't know what I will do after the wedding is actually over . I will still stalk you ladies. Fair warning Yeah, My FI asked me what I would do with all my time after the wedding is over. I think he is lonely since I'm pretty much in love with this forum! Seriously, I think I might be addicted. But, it's a good thing because I wouldn't have attempted all my DIY projects (Foam Door Hangers, Rhinestone Tanks, Keycard/Tip Holders, etc.) I had my dress and veil made here (China) but I'm not sure I like my veil. I showed the tailor pictures and she made it but was unsure on how to attach the hair comb. So, I have a bit of time to bring it to another tailor. Honestly, I really like the style but I'm not sure how to explain where it should be sewn onto the comb. Are any of you having your veils made? Did you buy your veil? If so, can you post some pictures? I will take a picture of mine when I get home from work today. Who is doing your hair? The resort? I have a friend that offered to do my hair but I'm second guessing my decision and might have the resort do it. The reason I'm nervous about her doing it is she is bringing her 8 month old daughter to Mexico and I'm worried if her daughter is having a bad day on my wedding day what if she can't do my hair exactly how I want it. Is this being too selfish? I mean it is my wedding day!?! I might just nicely tell her I'm having the resort do it. It's only $75 for a piece of mind. What do you think?

Well, this is how we are giving ours away. Whoever's birthday is closest to our wedding date will take home the centerpiece. We thought it would be a fun way for our guests to interact and it is a totally fair way to give them away. I can't take credit for the idea though, it was my FMIL that thought of it. Good Luck! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by SusieQ I have a plan to deal with FMIL, I am taking her to dinner before we go see the the dress. I called her last night and she is very excited, she has another DIL that she gets along well with however they would never do dinner together. She pretty happy when i called her last night and suggested dinner and a chat about the wedding. She hasn't had any input into the wedding because she has been away for all of September and October. I actually looked at some diamond ear rings yesterday at the mall. I am really liking that idea. I could even wear them for the wedding... maybe not.. I want dangling bling.lol I think I am going to try the local "Shoppers Drug Mart" they apparently do make up applications for free here. My gfriend told me that the one closest to me has a really awesome girl there has done her makeup a couple for times. My one gfriend never goes through the door without looking polished to the 9's. I'll see what this gal can come up with. Have a great day ladies... stay outta trouble Nice thinking on the earrings!! Sounds like you and the FMIL are bonding.... so cute!!! When I head to the states next month I'm going to hit a few of those makeup counters for free demos! I can't wait. Trouble? I think you are the girl that gets into trouble! Oh wait, it could be Shellk since she has a thing for batteries.... lol Have a good day girls! ~ China Girl

Quote: Originally Posted by SusieQ Hi Shells I will talk to FMIL on wednesday, I have another dress fitting and she wanted to tag along to see my dress. I will have to tell her, Just the thought of having her spend that kind of money on something I will never wear is just wrong. I know I would never feel comfortable with it on. Funny enough I know she has two fur coats and I have never seen her with either on... I went to Sephora today and looked their stuff... holy smokes for about $250 I could have got the basics for my wedding day.... That is way too much.... I wear make up on the weekends and sometimes during the week. Mostly nothing!!!!! I think that is alot for makeup. I will maybe go to the local drug store and check out the brands they have. $54 dollars for a foundation was a bit extreme..... I LOVE SEPHORA!!! But on my last vacation I was in the airport lobby and found the perfect travel pack, it's made by Clinique. Here are the details... Clinique Travel Exclusive - 4 eyeshadow - 1 blush - 1 double face powder - 4 lipsticks & 1 sheer - 1 High Impact Mascara ... and comes in this cute little case. I just love it! It was $40 but well worth it. Good Luck! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by bahiabride2010 Great job! I'm so excited to be at this stage of wedding planning! How about one that says "At the Pool Bar"? Great one! Now give me about 5 more... ha-ha! Thanks for your help! ~ Erica

I bought my badge holders from the seller on ebay: gcishoponline, here's a link. http://myworld.ebay.com/gcishoponline Oh, and I paid $10.99 with shipping. Good Luck! ~ Erica

PRICING: Coil Bracelets ($2.99/dozen) Oriental Trading Company Resealable badge holders ($8.00/50) Ebay Business cards ($12.00/100) Vistaprint I actually had the business cards printed doublesided and will be using the other side as a welcome tag with a welcome poem As we come upon our special day, Jason and Erica would like to say… Welcome to Mexico, and enjoy your stay. We thank you for coming all this way. Please enjoy these gifts that we all share. They are brought to you with our love and care. Let’s celebrate and keep those cocktails within reach. As we exchange our vows this Wednesday on the beach! 02.10.10 Hope that helps! ~ Erica

Finally.... my keycard/tip holders are completed!!! Items needed: Resealable badge holders (bought on Ebay) Business cards (bought from Vistaprint) Coil bracelets (bought from OTC) The saying says: "I TAKE YOU TO CARRY MY KEY AND TIP MONEY, FOR POOLSIDE OR BARSTOOL, FOR SOUSED OR FOR SOBER, IN HEAT AND IN HUMIDITY UNTIL I DEPART" Thanks to all of the brides who have helped me out!!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by FutureMsMoulton Vday- I LOVE the bags adorable!! Meyer- It was my real estate exam and I am so relived it is over. Our Realtor forgot to tell us that she scheduled a open house and we were there painting and moving stuff around when she arrived to start it. We were like WHAT?!?! Dammit. UGH!! Sunday is football day so at least that is going for me! FutureMrs.Moulton Oh wow... my FBIL is a realtor. It's nice having one in the family. He started a rental business with us and we have 4 rental properties. It's hard work but fun at the same time. Way to go on passing!!! Yayyy!!! vdaybride Nice job on the OOT bags! Your flowergirls are going to love them! SusieQ Wow... a mink coat? That's really nice of her. I would be shocked too, but unfortunately I would have a hard time wearing such an expensive coat once made of a real animal. I'm an animal lover and just couldn't do it. Your FMIL sounds like a sweetie! Maybe you could ask her to get you some real silverware instead so when you have her over for dinner, you can use it Just a thought. Kristaheer Way to go FMIL!!! Hee-hee! Hope all you girls had a great weekend! Today is Monday (12:48pm) in China and I have the Monday blues... auughh!!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by FutureMsMoulton Tricia Rocks!! Ok I am really biased cause she is getting married the day before me at my resort and I am going to stalk out her wedding (shhussshhh don't tell her its a secert!!) Since I was feeling guilty I thought I better practice what I preach and grabbed a banana and a hand full of grapes for breakfast and then went and did a 1.25 mile run/walk. So now I have a MAJOR test in less than an hour. Why girls? Why? Why must you all be so fun to talk to on here? It really cuts into my productivty!! Of course coming on here feels like I get to chat with close friends so thats awesome! I'll let you all know how the test goes. 75% of people who take it fail thier first time... gulp! Is this for your "BAR" exam? I thought I remember you saying you were going to law school? Good Luck Girl!!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by futuremrsgoodrich Speaking of weight loss, who is dieting and any bright ideas about how to stay motivated? I realized yesterday that we have 3 months (today less!) until the wedding and I would really like to lose 15lbs and I am good for a few days and then fall off of the wagon again... my FI doesnt seem concerned but I REALLY want to look my best wearing that pretty dress etc... not to mention laying out on the beach! Any suggestions? I have seen that some of the girls on here have lost stacks of lbs!! ALison Yes, PLEASE send some motivation my way too! The FI and I just inquired for help from a personal trainer. We are going to see how much he charges. I LOVE BIGGEST LOSER - so I'm hoping this trainer is like "BOB"... we need to get our butts motivated and we have no excuse not to work out. We do work long hours but.... A) We have no kids or pets to tie us down We have a gym membership (our company pays 100%) C) We have 6pm-11pm open every night but we choose to watch T.V. Ummmmm... can you say LAZY!!!!!!!! Auggghhhhh!!!! I also want to lose 15 pounds by February! HELP!!!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by hockeymom97 I've seen a couple people mention that they purchased the badges from ebay. Is there a particular seller that anyone could recommend? Hello! I bought mine on ebay too, check out this seller: 10 Vertical Vinyl ID Card Badge Holders w/ Zip Zipper - eBay (item 290361056713 end time Nov-17-09 06:55:03 PST) I also bought the resealable holders in case water would try to get inside. Good Luck and Happy Planning! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by SusieQ Well it is 5am and I have been awake for over a hour, I hate daylight savings time change. So China gal, are you making the trip home before going away to get married? Oh and to those of us that are claiming to be un-spoiled and still a virigin, "Your nose is growing". Coffee is ready... have a great day lassies Oh SusieQ! Maybe take some NyQuil or 3 glasses of wine before you go to bed tonight!!! We are flying from China to Michigan for 4 days (getting legally married), then flying to Mexico for 7 days, then flying back to Michigan for a week to have our AHR before we have to head back to China. I just hope and pray we can change our internal time clocks to Mexico time and not be too exhausted to walk down the aisle. LOL Good night girls, this China girl is hitting the sheets! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by lily17bear Erica, I absolutely love your idea. I would've never, ever thought of something so quirky and fun. I agree with you on the reasons behind not putting personal info on them. I would love to do them, and maybe even putting our monogram on them. Now that would be tricky. Do they sell door hangers that are not foam, or that you could print something on? Hello! Thanks... if it wasn't for this great forum, I would have never done half of the stuff I've done. Love this forum!!! Hmmm... printable door hangers that aren't foam. Do you mean something like this? Amazon.com: BLANKS/USA Pre-Cut Jumbo Door HangEr, 15 Sheets, 30 Door Hangers (DHT08X9WH): Office Products That would be a fun idea as well. Good Luck! ~ Erica

LOVE #2... the fuchsia pops and says "Here I am, grab me and lets head to Turks & Caicos" Nice job! ~ Erica

I agree with the other brides! Have your cousin as your "Man of Honor"... I think that is great!! As far as your younger cousin, have him usher or do you have programs/fans to hand out at the ceremony? Maybe by giving him one of those jobs he will feel like a big part of your wedding and your aunt will be happy. That's too bad she is making you feel so crummy! She shouldn't be putting you on such a huge guilt trip. You have enough on your plate! I feel for you!!! Good Luck and keep us posted on what you have decided!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by kayr I love these and have bought my door hangers to make mine too, but not started them yet. Thanks for sharing them. xx Great! Now lets brainstorm and come up with some more sayings!!! Post your pictures when you're done! Can't wait to see them!! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by FutureMsMoulton Ok so i feel so dumb right now because I've done it before but how do I change my things that says I'm sick? I have the same question... mine is stuck on "Lonely". But that was weeks ago when FI was in US for 2 weeks. * HELP *

Where are you getting married? Is it a tropical location? When are you getting married? We need more details so we can help you!!! lol ~ Erica

LOVE THEM!!! My Fav is #1... love the colors and so tropical looking! Have fun using them!!! ~ Erica

ANY CAT BRIDES OUT THERE?? ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by diamondpooch I'm doing it in the US because getting married in Mexico is a pain in the butt. We planned on doing it the day before we leave for the wedding. Kind of a "kick off" to our awesome vacation. I think it will be exciting to go get married, have a nice brunch with our family and then go home and finish packing for our destination wedding! Yes! I agree, we don't want to mess with the blood tests and paperwork in Mexico. That is why we are getting "legally" married a few days before we leave for Mexico. The only nice thing about doing the "legal paperwork" in Michigan before we leave is my 80 year old grandmother who can't make it to Mexico will be one of our witnesses at the courthouse. I know she will be thrilled when we tell her. Other than that, the legal part in Michigan has no symbolic feeling for us, it's just paperwork and our real wedding date will be Feb. 10th in Mexico. Good Luck! ~ Erica

Quote: Originally Posted by shellk you girls crack me up.fi is watching simpsons yes he is 34 and he loves it.he is laughing away and i keep laughing at you guys and he is like oh it only took you 5yrs to like simpsons.whatever. i went grocery shopping on saturday and the trolley i got from outside the store had a packet of battieries in so i picked them up wondering what they were and thought oh no someone has obviously paid for these and forgot to put them in their bag.so i put them in mine.i am not joking i felt so bad and when we walked into the store i felt like i was being stalked.my fi was laughing at me saying go and hand them in if you feel that bad but i did,nt dare cause they were already in my bag. the only freak moment i have had so far but it was a shouting good one was:there is only 4 of us attending our wedding.from day one i had a really big thing about the witness thing.i don,t want people on my wedding photos that i don,t know or i have only known since being on holiday.don,t really know why but these photos last a lifetime and you want loved ones on there.we thought we only needed 2 witnesses then it turns out we need 4.so i let rip.obviously i cant do anything about it i just said ok they can supply the other 2 but they are not going on any photos.so dont worry i will be giving the photographer the low down before they start clicking Ha-Ha!!! I can't stand the Simpson's... My FI also likes watching them! Go figure! I always say Finders Keepers...I don't think you did the wrong thing! Someone could have tripped over them or maybe someone could have dropped a cigarette next to them and they could have exploded. You never know! lol LMAO... that is too funny on telling the other 2 people "Thanks for being our witnesses, but please stay out of our photos!" Heading to work, take care girls! ~ Erica