We are having ours in May once my FI is out of school and can relax. Since we are getting married in Hawaii we are probably going to do a Luau in our backyard - very laid back. We have tons of family on the East coast so hopefully they can make it. If not then there is a chance we will have one here for our friends and family here and then have a picnic in PA for all the family out there. Either way it's going to be very laid back and relaxing and hopefully not a ton of money!