Hartyt509

I've been there 2 and you have to just not talk to him. If you do he will do his best to manipulate you and then when you go back will turn it round into I didn't ask you back YOU came back. My ex was a mechanic and i'm sure he had bipolar one min he would be happy and a good laugh the next a nasty get. I think its part of the job description!! He was also a lazy arse who thought everthing should be done for him! You aren't alone we all have the same just to varying degrees. He knows he's being an arse or he wouldn't ring and the thing about checking about the dogs is bollox and he knows it Let him stew on it, but YOU need to make a decision on what YOU want - leave him out of it. I know you love him but is it what you want for the rest of your life? Is he gonna do this everytime he falls off his meds? He's a big boy in control of his own life. Think of YOU!! sod the worrying about other people and what they have paid etc. The question is do YOU want this? If the answer is no then do what you need to do. You know we are all here to back you up, pity I live so far away I could have come and brayed him for you I just said to FI - as he was leaving!! lol - listen to this poor lass and gave him v brief highlights, his answer was "he's acting like a dickhead and he is probably gonna lose the best thing that ever happened to him" and that is from another obnoxious git lol So you see its not just women that are thinking that chick xx

Unfortunately they got mine straight away and charged it lol

Quote: Originally Posted by Leslie-Xcaret09 You are toooo funny! Maybe you should read this thread again from the begining "Let's show our wonderful FI's some extra appreciation!!! " LOL http://bestdestinationwedding.com/fo...4-5#post450521 My FI didnt want to wake up this morning because he was up til 4am playing his stupid XBox so I feel your pain! Hopefully it gets better Lol no need I already said in it I probably wouldn't be lmao

I'm going upstairs (my house is a bit weird lol) that way at least I won't have to listen him to snore and then start huffing and puffing when I make too much noise lmao

I'll be fine at 1pm tomorrow when he buggers back off to work lmao honestly once he gets out the army he better fecking work away or i'll be in jail lmao

He's been home less than 24 hours and I want to smash his skull in with something heavy and that is proper mild to what I'm feeling lol He has got to be the most selfish obnoxious miserable arse I have ever met in my life lmao now I know he's tired but he isn't too tired to play on his fecking PS2 or Facebook!!! I've managed to keep my temper all day and to be fair we had a great afternoon, we went to see Hancock - its brill. We get home and he changes again!! I swear he's got bloody PMT or split personality I rarely talk about wedding stuff with him because the only thing he is interested in is that it's HIS way and what HE wants and its my job to plan it!! So I said to him can you look at this photographer and he just screwed up his nose and said nah!!! so I had the "arsehole" look on my face lol I said well we may be stuck with the resort one if people suddenly decide to book flights! He says "what do you mean" (isn't it bloody obvious what I mean!!) So I patiently explain what I mean and he just keeps saying "we've talked about this, we've talked about this!!" I've had to walk away before I totally lose it with him. HE wants this wedding NOT me so he should have some bloody input!! Its not even worth talking about it because he'll go into a sulk and it will last for ages and frankly I can't be arsed with it tonight lol Oh it gets bloody worse!! Its 9.20pm and hes come into our bedroom and said right i'm going to bed!!! WTF if he didn't get up and playing on his fucking PS2 at 6am he'd get to bed at a proper time !! Well he can piss off if he thinks i'm being quiet lmao Just needed to vent - cheers lol

I've attached the payment form - like i said think yourself lucky you only have to send $500 lol PAYMENT_OPTIONS_FOR_WEDDINGS.doc

Good luck chick - just remember you are doing this for YOU and YOU will not be a dormat for any twat!!! xxx

Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa OMG i just caught up on this thread and am laughing my ass off - i am so glad you boss had your back - what a stupid bitch! but that line above has to be one of the funniest ever LMAO sorry bit graphic - she's awful keep trying to think of ways of screwing her over but I can't without getting fired lmao

I really like it but I couldn't wear it i'd catch it on everything

not sure we don't have A1 - poss like heinz maybe not as spicy lmao Nah its lovely makes a pancake savoury as opposed to sweet which is much better for me lol

Quote: Originally Posted by keiperwedding I was also very shocked at the contract for Dreams Cancun. Then I wanted to send them my 500 deposit through wire transfer, I cannot get their information. Did anyone have a hard time with that information? On the contract it says, use account below and there is nothing. I have no clue where to send the deposit. If anyone can help that would be awesome! I live in Los Angeles also and would cannot wait to hear about your weddings after they go smoothly and you are thrilled! How much they made me pay 1250 which is half the package price!! I could have done with just paying the 500 as i'd have rather paid the rest off the actual price of the holiday which is extreme!!

Quote: Originally Posted by ashrose What is chop sauce? Its a brown sauce but a bit spicey - its a really cheap variety but i love it only on pancakes tho for some reason!

Quote: Originally Posted by gen moriya i wonder if you can bribe a hotel person to clear the area by the pool during the ceremony. I havent done a site visit yet...so maybe it wont be that big of a deal.... I doubt it because its public but I think its private to the tower so shouldn't be too busy anyway- i've seen pics with people in their cosies sitting on the side of a pool when a wedding is going on

Quote: Originally Posted by starchild Want me to spy on him? Haha j/k Enjoy your you time. DH went to a fight in Vegas with my brother the week before our wedding and at first I was sad but by day 2 I was loving the downtime. Watch all your girlie movies and do what you want. It's a weird feeling initially but you'll have a good time Totally agree lmao but that could be because i only see him about 2/3 days a month - yay

Quote: Originally Posted by JennyK omg you are tooooo funny when you go on a rant!! Lmao you have no idea that was quite calm I was spewing at work -secretary said i'm keeping out your way in case you blow lmao Quote: Originally Posted by Kat81 Screw her dude! WTF? What a complaining bitch. We know how great you are and I will let you be my Lawyer any day!! Aww thanks lol what was funny tho was that the boss said i'm not helping her out with her debt the way you did - get her bloody wonderful trainee daughter to do it lmao

Quote: Originally Posted by Dez921714 I hate people...all of them LOL I agree chick lmao I only like kids until about 5 and dogs - fuck the rest lmao Tell you what move over here with the dogs and we'll both kick ours out lmfao

Quote: Originally Posted by Hartyt509 Ok i'll have 6 pints of what you lot have been drinking lol By the time mine comes home about at 12pm tomorrow night I won't have seen him for 3 weeks lol he will still be in his combats (he's got a 5 hr drive after work to get home) and his feet will stink lol he will start to snore like a freight train and I will go into the spare room lmao I might appreciate him on Friday but certainly not when he gets home lmao Knew it I should be psychic lmao Walks in the door, strokes the dogs (who are going nuts!) goes straight in the spare room, takes off his kit, crawls into bed says a brief hello, shouts at the dog for making too much noise and goes to sleep with a big fuck off frown lol All that in 20 mins lmao!! so I don't think I'll be appreciating him in a while lmao

Oh god I can think of nothing worse lmao mind u I don't like either one of them lol What grosses out my mates is pancakes (think ours are different to yours lol) with chop sauce yum yum yum lol i really want some now but its past midnight lol

UPDATE so my boss has reviewed the file and says its fine - she's being a total bitch lol She turns up for her appointment with "her tits hanging out" he said lol at first I thought he was joking but apparently not lol So thats her sussed - apparently he told her exactly what I had said and she agreed with him!! Ugly twat I hope she gets fucking herpes or something really vile lmao

Think of the peace and quiet and you can watch what you want on TV, eat what you want etc - bliss cherish it lmao

Not so sure its the norm to have a cleaner over here unless you are well off lol So I have to do it and I hate it lol I want my dad back place was amazing when he lived here lol

lol the contract is shite - i had the same problem, I've paid my deposit but I'm not signing anything until I get there i've booked the date, time and reception venue the rest i'll deal with when I get there - might ask her to book Christian at the beginning of the year but thats it

Quote: Originally Posted by Alyssa Dez - that is really not acceptable and so disrespectful. i know this sounds harsh but IMHO love is not enough to make a relationship work and empty or serious threats are really hurtful. if my FI ever told me 1x he wanted out - i would be "guess what buddy -get the fuck out!" bye I sooo wanted to say that but thought I'd get shouted at lol

Aww chick that sucks! You did the right thing moving your money out - I've been in the boucing cheques situation and it is bloody awful. Take this time to decide what YOU want and no-one else. You know everyone is here to listen xx