Last January I went to a DW at Sandals Whitehouse. I recently got engaged and I have been thinking about going back to a Sandals, maybe the one in Negril.
As for the destination wedding I was recently at, the bride used the free flowers for her boutique, but brought silk flowers for the bridesmaid boutique. The bridesmaids ended up being much prettier.
She was kinda disappointed with her onsite photography and recommended sneaking in an outside friend/photographer in. She just wishes her pictures were a little better. Hope this helps!
Congrats and good luck planning!