I have a good friend who I haven't seen much in the last two years - first she had a bad pregnancy and now she's got a baby. Even before then, things were one-sided with me making most of the effort to maintain the friendship. She's scared of planes so I knew she wouldn't come to my wedding but I planned to invite her anyway. She received a save the date. Then about two months ago, we had a little tiff over my bachelorette party when she said 'she doesn't mind going out as long as her daughter is sleeping because she doesn't like to miss any time with her when she's awake,' I got really annoyed at that - she's married and has lots of childcare options - but also, since she's not going to be at the wedding I would think that she would at least want to come to this. We didn't talk for two months until a few weeks ago when I said Happy Bday.
I go on FB yesterday and see she had a big 1st birthday party for her daughter at her house. I felt like that was a huge slap in the face not to invite me. I sent her a nice text - saw you had a bday party for your daughter, she's so cute, can't believe she's one already! I wanted to see how she'd respond. She didn't respond at all.
So between that and how our friendship has been over the last few years, I am questioning whether to send her an invitation at all now, even though she got a save the date. What do you think?