My fiance sounds a lot like your fiance. He's so over me asking him what to do about this that and the other, that he is just letting me handle everything from here on out. lol I tell him when he gets to the resort and sees how much work actually went into it he'll know exactly just how much I really did. He just thinks its an email here and there, no its a lot emails to several vendors and then research, contracts, payments etc. My living room also looks like a wedding factory and it keeps multiplying the closer we get to the wedding. As for the groomsmen outfits we also bought them their pants and that was not fun trying to buy pants that will look good on 5 guys who are built completely different. Now we have to make sure they all fit but that's another headache and my fiance should be handling this but again its like pulling teeth to get all the guys over to try them on. Last night I made my fiance try on his suit with new shoes and tie and he whined the whole time lol I was like don't you want to make sure everything looks right and fits good before we are in Cancun. I don't get guys sometimes. I'm usually not this demanding and crazy I'm actually really chill and go with the flow but this last month is really making me stressed. We were also thinking of doing a white party for our rehearsal dinner but scrapped that idea that would be another headache trying to explain to all our guests to wear white.
Our Fiances sound totally the same!! He was complaining so much when trying on the pants. I told him to do it once, get it over with, and we wouldn't have to worry about it again. I'm actually not going to worry too much if they look good on our groomsmen or not as long as they fit haha - so we'll give them the receipt in case they need to exchange the size, but that's it. And they can get them altered however they want. My FI is fairly picky with his own suit, so luckily that's one thing I didn't have to push him to do. I just ended up ordering him the suspenders and bow tie I liked after he gave me his barely looking nod of approval haha.
He's always like what are you doing on your computer? And I'm like planning our wedding! haha... the worst is when people ask him how wedding planning is and if it's stressful or not, and he's like "nope, it's great. Easy" and I give him the dirtiest looks imaginable .
I really wanted a White Party so I'm pushing for it. My mom is telling her friends who are coming, and she's already bought clothes for my dad and brother (haha women). I put it on our website and I'm sending out a passport pre-mailer that has it emphasized in there too. I'm also probably going to bring some extra white things for people that forget